rsd1200
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I've never understood why people put so much emphasis on the age difference between LT and DT. My dad's parents were 20 years apart. I don't know what kind of marriage they had though, since my grandma died before I was even born...
And my parents are only 5 years apart, which isn't such a huge deal now but when they were younger it would have been an issue. My dad was 21 and my mom was 16 when I was born  They married young as well, and spent 15 years together before separating in 2007.
I've never been one to care about the age difference between people. It is what it is.
I don't understand it either. I started seeing my first spouse around the time I turned 17. My cousin got married at age 16 to a 19 y/o. They were married for several years and, again, not a "have to" case. Everyone freaks out these days if there's any age difference. Everyone freaks out over everything. We only go 'round once on this flying rock, might as well have fun, be kind, and make the most of it.