Busted :woohoo: He's busted! :dance: Good time DrewP will have a different audience now! :loser: He'll keep them all in stiches, lol what will happen to all his riches?!?! :clap: They don't like cops, and he won't be so hot.
But $20M bail in jail he will stay! :woohoo:
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,519392,00.html
It's been a long time coming and I was getting afraid it would never get here. For those concerned about the kids, yes I am concerned about them and have been for some time.
The two older kids are old enough to remember their mother and their love and memories of her. They undoubtably grieved for her when she died, and this will bring it all back for them. Plus they are learning that their father just might be involved in her death, and this time they will be without their father. They also grew to accept another woman as their mother. And this time, they didn't- couldn't grieve for her. They were told she abandoned them. Didn't say goodbye, she just left. I don't know what they were told about their mother- but for their second mother, efforts were made to kill their love for her. And that will affect their psych in the long run, feeling abandoned through death the first time, then willful abandonment the second. Plus, we don't know just how much they heard, how much they knew. For all we know, and some witnesses seem to suggest that they know the truth. And for all this time, they had to live with what they saw, or heard, or knew. They also had to live with the person who is accused of doing it. And from recent media, it sounds as though they were being encouraged to participate in illegal activity. So yes, I am and have been concerned about them- but I think they will be better off in the long run. At least they will if it hasn't come too late. If there hasn't been too much damage so far.
For the younger kids, they will grow up without a mother. Without even remembering that they ever had a mother. And now without a father too. I just hope they don't remember ever being told that their mother abandoned them. And when they get old enough to learn the truth, they don't have a grave site to go to, to mourn their mother- to even have the illusion that they could talk to her at graveside. And someday after they learn, they will have trouble looking their father in the eye knowing why they don't have a mother. But they won't have to live with him every day. Yes, I am and have been concerned about the younger children too. But in the long run, they too are better off.
And for all of the boys, they will have a chance to learn how to actually love a woman, how to be respectful to a woman, and how a woman can be an equal. They can learn how to really treat a woman, actually like a woman..... not like a new puppy to be spoiled then ignored or to have her body parts altered (or repaired) because it
"looks" better to their owner/husband. They will have a chance to grow up and learn that their can be households where men don't abuse women to "keep them in line" or to get their way. Boys who grow up in an abusive home can go a couple of ways. They can be overly aggressive, and sometimes become abusers themselves. Or they get too 'quiet' and years later sometimes turn to substance abuse or suicide.
For little Lacy, she will hopefully have a chance to grow up without absorbing that it is a woman's place to keep her man happy- and under threat of abuse if she fails. Little girls raised in an abusive home often has a very low self esteem in later life and runs a higher chance of becoming substance abusers and sometimes end up marrying men "just like their dads."
Sometimes kids who grow up in abusive households will grow up fine. But even those kids grow up with internal emotional scars. And those scars can affect them in many ways.
