Ok folks you been beating me up pretty good over my remarks about her brother, her trip to New York and her picture on his Facebook page. So for some love I took it to my two gay buddies..and said am I that wrong? This is what they said.
Even for being gay this dude is way out there. Never would they put their beautiful, college age sister on their Facebook main photo. They said if their beautiful sister visited them in NY she would have the time of her life and be as safe as she could be. And finally if it was their sister they would be night and day hitting everything and everybody to try and find her. They told me they would not sleep a wink or take a bite but would be following up every lead everywhere. They would get some answers or the LE would be so sick of them they would be having a news conference every dam hour til she was found.
So..I rest my case.
Im not beating you I hope. FWIW I think your friends' reaction is totally normal and I think Alex's is too. It depends on the individual's personality and how they deal with trauma imo and the sexual orientation is irrelevant.
About the weirdness of this case (where to start) have we, as a group, concluded that the friend called HER or SHE called the friend when Morgan was allegedly outside? Assuming she was indeed there, it seems to me that if Morgan were outside
on purpose she would not have initiated the call. That is not solid; and doesn't prove anything; it's just how I feel. Iow, if she wandered out by accident or otherwise got outside not-deliberately, the first thing she'd do is initiate the call to the friends "OMG I'm outside; I cant get back in" etc However, imo, ,if she were out there for a reason, she would be less in a mad rush to call the friends.. (I think that anyway)
Also, I cant get behind her being emabarrassed about anything mildly embarrasing with the roommate like feeling sick, dizzy, or tripping, falling, bloody face..... If they've been friends that long and live together, they've seen plenty of way more embarrassing things than any of those incidents. Whatever it was would have to be a real whopper doozy imo for her to be significantly embarrassed in front of the roommate.
2 cents
moo.