After all these months........Not a soul in Haleigh's case blames themselves for anything. I just listened to Tommy/Lindsy tape...........he blames cops for his incarcination. TN never aid if only I would of watched the children. RC says I was at work. Misty I was asleep. GGS never said she should of stayed there. Neighors, could hear, see anything??? Teachers? Child services? No regret? Nothing? Haleigh needs someone to say they should of been there for her! No one saying "if only I had............."