No, I don't think the State is still communicating with the families, but I think they did early on -- possibly more than they should have. As in telling them details that IMHO should have been kept from the media, and that perhaps LE didn't think they'd share with the media.
I'm not sure what Mr G has been thinking. At all. And IMHO the family might do better with a different attorney. SG (attorney) hasn't impressed me at all. Maybe that's just me though. (It's been difficult to know if something is coming from the attorney or the family.) Along the same lines, I'm not sure if Mr G didn't believe he had the right to speak to the media, or if it was attorney SG who believed they couldn't speak out since he wasn't allowed to speak out (because of the gag order).
I also believe Mr G saw the autopsy reports, and I agree the parents had the right to see those if they wanted to. They didn't do an autopsy on my son when he passed, but I did talk to the coroner and then requested (and received) a copy of the coroner's report. I had to know, and I'd think at least some of the families would have felt the same.
Maybe it will be better for the families to have a little more time before the trial. Time to heal a bit before it's all brought up again. Mrs G stated in the article that she'll most likely leave the court room when explicit details are brought up (paraphrasing her), and IMHO that's a good idea. If only for her own emotional and mental health.
Just my thoughts and opinions
I completely agree with you and I would be *so* frustrated and sleepless if this were my child who was murdered. I'd also be on every online forum, everywhere, drinking up any information about Kohberger that I could find.
It is not that long in the past that LE *did* communicate more openly with the families of victims. I think where this case turned the corner is with an actual arrest. Up until then, I think if the families were persistent (as SG was), much information was shared, out of compassion.
I agree that their attorney is not the best one for them. And it's almost certain, in my mind, that SG didn't realize he could still speak (and I say that because even here on WS and certainly on other platforms, many, many people thought the same). SG's attorney may have thought the same, we don't know.
I am so sorry to hear about your son. I can't even imagine. You have an inquisitive mind and I don't know how you stood up. I would *have* to have the coroner's report and would go to court over that if I had to (but I believe it was shared with the families when it was completed in this case - if they wanted to see it). The closest I've come to this is the havock wreaked in my own family when my talented young musician cousin died in a single car accident around 1972, and we all waited anxiously for the Coroner's report (and then, my uncle misinterpreted it and had a nervous breakdown - his thinking was completely off the charts for a couple of years).
I agree that this gives the families more time to heal. It also gives the highly mobile population of residents of Moscow, ID to have some turn over, in terms of a potential jury pool. That benefits the defendant and helps the prosecution escape appeals based on "not a fair trial." By the time this comes to trial, it will be much more fair. I think Mr G took the brunt of handling the funerals, viewing the bodies - and he is the one who read the autopsies (I think MM's mom probably delegated that to him or allowed it).
Maybe the parents got access to all the coroner's reports (which would have been standard many years ago). What the parents want is justice and I believe they think the right person has been charged and have been privy to enough information (way more than the PCA - because they saw the full ME reports, at least for their own kids). From what SG said, the manner of death showed a lot about the killer's mind and pattern of crime execution.
Most days, I can't get what he said out of my mind and I haven't forgotten - it's a key piece of this case.
Since I believe the right person is in custody, I can't fault the state (and I think Mr. G thinks the same and has way more information than I do). There is no hurry here, to try him.
The victim family pathway through a terrible crime is fraught with constant re-trauma, IMO. And I wish it weren't so, but it is part of making sure the right person is convicted. I always keep in mind that it's like some family members are reading here.
IMO.