He was 66 years old, so was his grooming something akin to a grandfatherly role? I’m trying to understand how he had access to her and when it occurred. How did her parents learn what happened?If it's true that the dead perp was a type of family friend, boyfriend of a friend, then the little girl may have received the subliminal message that he was approved, which made her let down her guard against going for rides with strangers, etc. How powerful that "acceptance", at friends' gatherings, etc must have (could have) been. Just speculating here. Looking back I do remember friends of my parents, the men, being so smiley and a little pushy. Not saying any of them made "advances" towards me. Just kind of yucky gushing. Now, imagine if that were taking place these days at a friendly multi family gathering with the man in question allegedly being the ex or present chief of police. Imagine the vibes of respect that man would surely receive. And how the kids would all automatically respect the individual....no matter what he suggested to them.
If I'm reading this correctly, all his felony charges were not only related to this child, but there also may not be convincing (i.e., convictable) evidence without her witness testimony.We absolutely called 911 during the entire event," she wrote. "We had no idea this man was in contact with our child again. He was waiting 6-9 felonies for what he did, not 2. He was looking at the rest of his pathetic life in jail, and our daughter was the only witness."
Not sure if we had this information yet from MSM - abuser was dating a family friend, so that is how he had access and was able to groom the victim. Wonder if the friend had any inkling as to his perversions, given this apparently was far from his first time (allegedly).Mom stands by husband arrested for killing creep stalking daughter
Heather Spencer, 37, said she stands by her husband after he was arrested for shooting and killing the 67-year-old man who abducted his 14-year-old daughter in the middle of the night from their home.www-dailymail-co-uk.cdn.ampproject.org
How could he have been so brazen as to pick her up at 1 am. I haven't heard any accusations yet that there was a kidnapping, you know the insinuations brought up in court, like maybe she called him and "begged him to come get her" (i made that up that podsibility). But I remember in the murdered and buried alive little Jessica in Florida, the creep did actually kidnap her from her bed, kept her for days molesting her, and ultimately said the 9 yr old (iirc) "liked it". I can't remember if she was 9 or 11.Not sure if we had this information yet from MSM - abuser was dating a family friend, so that is how he had access and was able to groom the victim. Wonder if the friend had any inkling as to his perversions, given this apparently was far from his first time (allegedly).
Also, something about Dad's mugshot breaks my heart. He looks like he is still in shock and reckoning with what has happened - like he can't even bring himself to look toward the camera because he is in his own head - almost a different man from the one we are seeing in happier photos.
I could understand LE feeling a need to arrest based on a death from GSW. Curious as to what their response was if/when the predator was accused though... It's unclear how previous victims reported, or if they only shared their stories after the shooting, but it's hard to imagine someone so brazen as to kidnap a 14-year-old from her family home - when the whole family knows of him and his crimes -
not sure if this was how he gained access to her but he was a former police chief from Indiana and a resource office. reports aren't clear if he was a school resource officer or how he came to be in contact with the minor daughter.He was 66 years old, so was his grooming something akin to a grandfatherly role? I’m trying to understand how he had access to her and when it occurred. How did her parents learn what happened?
It’s devastating to know the circumstances of this will to some degree, become public knowledge. I worry how this is/will effect the victim.
You're 100 % correct - I wasn't being super accurate about my word choice because I was busy being disgusted - with grooming, it is possible that she went willingly. I called it a kidnapping simply because removing a minor (with or without that minor's permission), without notification or permission of the parent or guardian, would still be custody interference I believe. The 14-year-old cannot make that choice for herself, from a legal standpoint; although I certainly have heard it argued, as you mention it was in dear Jessica's case.How could he have been so brazen as to pick her up at 1 am. I haven't heard any accusations yet that there was a kidnapping, you know the insinuations brought up in court, like maybe she called him and "begged him to come get her" (i made that up that podsibility). But I remember in the murdered and buried alive little Jessica in Florida, the creep did actually kidnap her from her bed, kept her for days molesting her, and ultimately said the 9 yr old (iirc) "liked it". I can't remember if she was 9 or 11.
It's essential to absolve Spencer of blame, imo, to avoid a trial with a 14 year old required to testify.
I wasn't calling you on the word kidnapping, I know it means many things. Just hoping hoping she doesn't have to endure court and cross ex. after all she's been through. We're on the same page.You're 100 % correct - I wasn't being super accurate about my word choice because I was busy being disgusted - with grooming, it is possible that she went willingly. I called it a kidnapping simply because removing a minor (with or without that minor's permission), without notification or permission of the parent or guardian, would still be custody interference I believe. The 14-year-old cannot make that choice for herself, from a legal standpoint; although I certainly have heard it argued, as you mention it was in dear Jessica's case.
I agree wholeheartedly and hope that the father's case is DTP'd, especially with the publicity LE is receiving. The child here has been through enough, and I hope the family has time, space, and resources to heal.
S&BBM- A few facts ...not sure if this was how he gained access to her but he was a former police chief from Indiana and a resource office. reports aren't clear if he was a school resource officer or how he came to be in contact with the minor daughter.
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Just an aside, but that's remarkable that he qualified for a class A commercial driver's license in his mid sixties. Usually, imo, near perfect eyesight is needed for that type of license.S&BBM- A few facts ...
The following is snipped from an obituary for his wife who passed away in June 2023. I'm not linking to preserve the family's privacy. She sounds like a very lovely person.
"Survivors include her husband, Michael George Fosler, her sweetheart of 44 years. They relocated in 1995 from Indiana due to Mike’s military career".
So if Flosler was a police chief/school resource officer in Indiana, he hadn't been in LE for nearly thirty years after moving to Cabot. Interesting that he was also in the military.
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Looks like he started a trucking company and obtained his Commercial Class A license in 2/2022. Interesting to see the States he has been in, see link above.
Predatory behavior doesn’t pop out of nowhere. The women who are starting to speak out said they have contacted LE. JMO, but there will be more who are not publicly announcing themselves.Just an aside, but that's remarkable that he qualified for a class A commercial driver's license in his mid sixties. Usually, imo, near perfect eyesight is needed for that type of license.
Apart from that, about a year after his wife passes away he is accused of molesting at least one barely teen girl. Not counting what AS wife said about there being others.
I seriously doubt he just started that behavior after being a loving hubby for 44 yrs. Jmo