Gardners boyfriend Richard Forester said at the time the two fought over Gardners use of alcohol.
We had our arguments, we had our fights, Forester says, acknowledging Gardner and he had a turbulent relationship.
I told her I thought she drank to much um but she was an adult and she was always with me so I thought I could protect, her, Forester said.
http://www.wjla.com/articles/2011/0...nts-expected-in-robyn-gardner-case-65872.html
Giordano told investigators Gardner took one of the pills in the afternoon. Later that day, he maintains Gardner disappeared while snorkeling.
I agree with all but this a "debate". Sometimes, of course, it becomes a debate when meting out a point, otherwise, we're sleuthing and fact finding, all on the same side as you, the side of the truth :fence:I would like to make something very clear
I really have not taken a side
I like to debate all points, for and against
I do try to do it in a respectful way unless i feel I am being unfairly targeted because of my opinions, like last night with Canmaneh's comments
I am not on anyone side
I am on the side of truth and whatever that truth is, is fine with me
It would be counterproductive if we all came here and agreed with everything other posters say
It is a debate based on opinions
Thats the Reality of it
Na'h you can talk to them in their sober moments and it does make a difference, once they realise their situation, thats how groups like AA do their work, and very good work too, turning peoples lives around, any social worker would tell you that!!.
Not to get too far O/T but I want to know 'Who" said the "meetings" have to happen.
I stopped drinking 2 yrs ago this month (6 plus beers) a day. over 25 yrs, I have not been to one meeting. I have some friends that say I was not an alcoholic because I didn't have to go to meetings, really? Oh and I stopped smoking the month after that,it was harder.
Where all addicted to something, if all that Robyn did outside of work,involved drinking, then she had a problem. It's the drinking with meds that she should have known not to do.
I would like to make something very clear
I really have not taken a side
I like to debate all points, for and against
I do try to do it in a respectful way unless i feel I am being unfairly targeted because of my opinions, like last night with Canmaneh's comments
I am not on anyone side
I am on the side of truth and whatever that truth is, is fine with me
It would be counterproductive if we all came here and agreed with everything other posters say
It is a debate based on opinions
Thats the Reality of it
Elley Mae,
I must take a minute and congratulate you on your 2 years of SOBRIETY!
It is not just a word it is a "new life", and a goal of epic proportion for the few who have the courage to admit they are an "alcoholic". People who are not alcoholics will never understand the strength and commitment it takes to be in "recovery". So from one "recovering" alcoholic to another in recovery " you are a very special person with a will of iron and may you obtain all the things you richly deserve in this "New" life. WELL DONE!!
I too gave up smoking, but unlike you had to wait a year before I could even think about it. I smoked 3 packs a day, ouch!
I have been a recovering alcoholic for 27 years, and believe me your life will only get better with sobriety. By the way you are absolutely right about AA. They are a wonderful organization, but not mandatory to get sober. I think I went to 3 meetings and never went back . To each his own, right?
I agree with all but this a "debate". Sometimes, of course, it becomes a debate when meting out a point, otherwise, we're sleuthing and fact finding, all on the same side as you, the side of the truth :fence:
According to the family, she was was a sneaky drinker. Maybe she was a functional alcoholic that normally took ambien during the day and topped it up with a shot or two of vodka. That would mean that she had poor judgment, possibly poor enough to get into dangerous waters and drown even though she was reputed to be a strong swimmer. Personally, I don't equate a drunk person with someone having common sense ... so I don't see how taking ambien and having a few drinks would mean she didn't plan to go into the water. Drunks are spontaneous, foolish and think they are invincible, meaning more likely to throw caution to the wind.
Why would she have a prescription if she didn't regularly take the medication?
Where does the part about GG slipping her a pill come from? She had the prescription, so no one needed to slip her her own medication ... she was doing that.
Her family is quoted in witness statements as saying that she was sneaking drinks.
why would she take a pill like that during the day? again, doesn't make sense.
Debate without personal attacks is what this forum should be about, there is always two sides to a story which can and should be discussed in an ADULT and respectfull way. JMO
Na'h you can talk to them in their sober moments and it does make a difference, once they realise their situation, thats how groups like AA do their work, and very good work too, turning peoples lives around, any social worker would tell you that!!.
Well I don't know about Saracen, but you haven't made any friends with any "drunk" or "alcoholic" here. Take another look at your "eloquent" statements on that subject.
Alcoholics, by definition, are powerless to stop or control their drinking without serious help. Go to an AA meeting and see if you can find a single alcoholic who quit because someone had a heart to heart with them.
Alcoholism is a disease, problem drinking is not. The very fact that someone can put down the bottle on the first try, and never look back is proof they were not an alcoholic. The exact same goes with cigarettes - there's a difference between habit and addiction.
Back on topic - Does anyone recall how many bottles of Vodka GG and RG bought for and during the trip? They didn't spend a lot of time in the room, so where were they drinking?
I agree .... have I insulted you, or is this about something else?
The father of my daughter, was an alcoholic RK, he died working out on a treadmill at Gold's Gym after another 16 hour drinking binge. My daughter was 12. I know a thing or two about the devastating effects alcoholism can have on the lives of family members and friends. I attended Al-anon meetings and begged him to get help. I took his daughter away from him, he lost multiple jobs, he had 2 DWI's and lost friends. Yet, he didn't think he had a problem, the bottle controlled him, he didn't have control over the bottle - that's the ugly truth of the disease. Death, at the age of 45 was all that stopped him.
I don't find anything funny about alcoholism, and I AM offended by anyone who would make light of alcoholism by saying a simple heart to heart changes the life of an alcoholic. Education about the disease is the first step to understanding it.
According to the hotel records GG purchased a liter bottle of vodka the first day. No reports if he purchased a bottle outside, and he could have as it would have been much cheaper.
I would think we all know someone, in our family, a friend, co-worker, etc. in our lives who has a problem with alcohol. Most of these people are in our lives because we love them but they have to be willing to help themselves. Kudos to those who do. But as far as RG is concerned, we just do not know how much she actually consumed that day because, afterall she was on vacation. jmo