Warshawski
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I hear ya!..... cynicism is vastly under rated in my opinion.. I'm in favour of a lot more of it. Your process has a hell of a lot going for it. ... Maybe Rick being so dumb as to interfere with 2 kids from her day care, jeopardising her income, and his, and bringing the wrath of the Qld State Gov on her head and the disgusted Qld Police down in his head, was the last straw, after years of batting away all sorts of accusations and assertions by the long suffering public..... Tia's entrance into that quartet changed the dynamic in ways that Juleen, Rick, Josh, and Trent had no control over, and no understanding of, and no way of adjusting.... perhaps Tia's normality was an unexpected challenge .
yep I feel FM Juleen was OVER it all - over that f ^% wit Rick, his slack-assed hairbrained schemes where she never knew from one day to the next how she could balance the budget... those boys ate like there's no tomorrow, not to mention the hair products & beauty aids, but barely a $$ contributed. And now they are up to this crap behaviour that will bring a totally different dynamic!
Time for a change for sure. .. but, as Mothers amongst us will attest I'm sure, I imagine JT had a massive struggle between her natural nurturing instinct to help & protect her child v ... all the other stuff.
The big question: is Juleen a Victim or a Survivor ( or perhaps Both) ?
IMO she is presently being cut some slack in this regard by the Police. However, I see Juleen as pretty resilient & clever these days, therefore I do think her capable of 'dealing' with a situation... carefully planning and managing each step.
I think perhaps she has had many 'situations' to deal with in her life with RT, and the strength & capability she has developed has possibly now taken the most unacceptable of paths.
There are 4 people who spent time in this family with Taihleigh.
I would put a call to each one of them to take a quiet personal moment to just check in with your 'core' of humanity - close out the 'me' stuff, close out the 'scary' ... Just be honest, just be real ..with YOURSELF.
No matter the challenges to be overcome, there is always opportunity for change, for better feelings & better living ..
Hence my question - are you REAL or are you such a f>{^! waste of space that the world would have been done a favour if you were drowned at birth?