That's very sad Bo. (((hugs))). Onwards & upwards though and have found in this life you can either sink or swim. Prayers for you to get through all of this and eventually heal the wounds. In the BBM, are you referring to what i stated about the Govt. funding of single parents. I wasn't trying to suggest it's wine & roses, but i think it encourages young people to make poor choices at a very young age. Young teenage mothers when perhaps they might do better at furthering their education instead of perhaps taking on roles of parenting they are not ready for, etc.