Cupcake
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sansoucie said:I didn't blame the school, I didn't blame the parents, I have a teenager, and 2 younger kids and I feel the school.. where my children spend the majority of their day, is responsible for providing a safe atmosphere. My daughter in kindergarden a few yrs a go got her pants pulled down by 2 boys on the play ground no less than 3 times and the playground monitor did nothing, wasn't looking, didn't hear her screaming, and when they finally did get around to nopticing they didn't call me or tell me. I had to drag it out of my child exactly what happened. When I called the principal she said she can't help it, kids learned things at home and she couldn't watch them the whole time. Thats where I made my safe atmosphere statement, took it to the super and board. Police were called and it was determined that the school was at fault FOR NOT PROVIDING A SAFE ATMOSPHERE AND NOT PROVIDING PROPER PLAYGROUND SUPERVISION. When you have charge over someone else's children you DO take a hefty responsibility. Our counselors ARE certified for counseling on a variety of issues... not just classes.
No, I am not supporting your blaming the parents. The parents can't be at school with their children.
I agree with you in that the school MUST provide a safe atmosphere and couselors ARE there for personal problems, not just to advise on classes. Sometimes, you have to just take the bull by the horns and make the principal understand that you want something done, and done now. My elementary school where my kids went knew me well! One of my kids had a teacher that picked on him, also ... you don't mess with my kids, man! I always take up for them, when I know they aren't in the wrong, because no one else is going to, and kids are at the mercy of the adults (teachers) when they're at school. I have gotten personally involved more than once when I felt it was necessary, and it took some bitchin to get it done. Obviously, I don't have problem speaking my mind! LOL
Truthfully, it takes the parents and school officials to take responsibility, not just one or the other.