JMO You mentioned in a recent post that "....just trying to predict how the defense might scrape together a case." But yet you didnt say that at all in the above post. And since we are a victim friendly place its no wonder when people read posts like that, it comes across as being sympathetic to the abusers and trying to find ways to justify what the parents did. I actually enjoy discussing defense strategies and it may help to preface the intentions of a post like above if that is the real reason for it. People can post however they want and just trying to help explain why some of the reactions are what they are.