It has been three years since 63-year-old Del Wilder was found dead of a gunshot wound on his Toby Trail property. Wilder was found the night of Nov. 15, 2011, by his son, Danny White, and nephew, Randy Lorenger. ...
Del Wilder became somewhat of a recluse after (his wife) Elissa died of cancer in 2006, family members said. He went into a deep depression, Heidi said. He was pretty tore up about my mom. At some point after that, Heidi theorizes, her dad got involved with drugs and that might be what ultimately led to his death. He went down a dark road, she said. Clearly, he was tangled up with the wrong people. He was not hanging out with family or friends, he isolated himself away from everyone.