I think the love is still there, I just don't understand the attitude of "well, that's it" because it doesn't have to be it. Maybe it is just feeling like there is nothing left to do now for the people who could and in my opinion, should be doing more. As with any tragedy, it can fracture a family. I am not close with my cousins anymore and I can't imagine what it is like to be them right now. I only know what it is like to be me and what it is like for my mom and my other aunt. Again thank you for the support.