CA CA - Maya Millete, 39, missed daughter's birthday, Chula Vista, 7 Jan 2021 *husband arrested* #5

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  1. SuziQ

    SuziQ Well-Known Member

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    Geeze, did the GAL miss the fact that their father and Grandparents are tormenting the children, and can't be trusted because they have ignored the court orders at least twice? SMDH.

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  2. PaulaDC

    PaulaDC Well-Known Member

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    We had an issue that our Grandchildrens parents both became incarcerated. The other set of Grandparents picked up the children during the arrest so as it turns out possession is 9/10's of the law. By the time you get to court to fight the issue of guardianship months pass, next appearance, more months. Finally you get visitation with a third party, then more months, then it turns into weekends like 9-5 alone. Then after that unless you're willing to spend a bunch on an attorney who could win, which isn't likely, children and family services leave the children because they're now settled in. At this point they stop checking in on the kids so unfortunately anything goes. They grant permanacy. We seriously were at our wits end due to the horrible way that the other grandparents told the children to treat us. They truly fed them so much b.s. along the way. I totally feel for them as this will be a life battle.
     
  3. Seattle1

    Seattle1 #LiveLikeLizzy

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    I think M & R have a good attorney that's on to LM, and already experienced LM pulling the rug out when he agreed to the grandparent's visitation during mediation and when he failed to comply, he told them that he wanted to wait for the "Order" (Dec hearing)! In other words, you know he never intended to allow Maya's family any access to the children! MOO
     
  4. Seattle1

    Seattle1 #LiveLikeLizzy

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    ^^bbm

    Having known several GAL's, I don't see it that way.

    It's truly a gift to be able to look at the situation through the eyes of minor children, evaluating them first as individuals, second as a unit, and working with the adults to make the future transition as conflict and tension-free as possible.

    It's pretty obvious that this has been a fractured family for some time -- not just the past 10 months MM missing.

    The Millete children only know what they've lived -- in other words, they don't know they're being tormented by their dad and grandparents!

    LM (and his parents) have been the constant, dominant force known to them their entire lives. It took MM, an educated adult, more than 20 years to learn what she was living was not normal or healthy. As in life, you do better when you know better.

    It's going to be a process for each of the children where little by little, we hope they will learn to "grow their family" (not replace) with their new attachment figures M & R and form a bond with them.

    I support the GAL's recommendation, and also how removing the children from the only home they've known, their school, friends, etc. without an age-appropriate transition would be emotional torture.

    Beginning Sunday, Nov 14, here's to the families establishing some boundaries, and the children re-acquainting and building trust with adults that have been missing from their lives for nearly a year.

    They need our prayers. MOO
     
  5. Tink56

    Tink56 MOO...IMO

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    This post deserves 1000 likes. Absolutely spot on!
     
  6. Seattle1

    Seattle1 #LiveLikeLizzy

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    Thinking of the Millete children, and hope they were finally reunited with Maya's family on Sunday for their first visit Sunday since January.
     
  7. Seattle1

    Seattle1 #LiveLikeLizzy

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    John Lordan

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    · Nov 17
    More details are coming out due to the court processes involved in Maya Millete's disappearance. As her sister presses on all fronts, we learn about another strange request Larry made to the "spellcaster."

    4:14 PM · Nov 17, 2021
     
  8. swedeheart

    swedeheart Well-Known Member

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    They are headed back to Glamis this weekend (while also getting to meet with the kids for Thanksgiving).

     
  9. Lusitana

    Lusitana Well-Known Member

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    I honestly just hope that the Millete's are able to be civil with Maya's family.
     
  10. rosesfromangels

    rosesfromangels Amateur speculations and opinion only

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    Just to avoid any possible shady-ness, I would encourage M and R to have a "witness" present during visitations. Hopefully they can gain full custody, and this would be a short term arrangement.

    Amateur opinion and speculation
     
  11. Lusitana

    Lusitana Well-Known Member

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    I think that would be better for everyone involved to be honest, having someone "neutral" there just in case...
     
  12. cvaldez1975

    cvaldez1975 Well-Known Member

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    is their visitation supervised? if not there is no reason they need to interact w the milletes other than picking them up and dropping them off. that can be a powder keg in itself but least they would have their own time.
     
  13. rosesfromangels

    rosesfromangels Amateur speculations and opinion only

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    Having third party supervision due to the hostile nature of LMs family is prudent. Let us recall they have already tried to sell the idea that the girls are “uncomfortable” around Richard.

    amateur opinion and speculation
     
  14. Curious Me

    Curious Me Who When Where What Why & How

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    I'm just thankful there's some rebuilding going on between the children and Maya's Family. Thankful LM is still in jail. Hope LM's parents are ensuring the children do receive counseling and mental health therapy. It's important the children be able to voice their sorrow and grief over losing their mother and process all their mixed feelings with a neutral therapist. I try to imagine the day... there's still hope that eventually Maya will be found and there will be evidence that nails LM to the crime with no wiggle room. We all want to see Justice done for Maya and her loved ones.

    Wishing all the dedicated posters here a Happy Thanksgiving.
     
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  15. cvaldez1975

    cvaldez1975 Well-Known Member

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    i can see the point but countless ppl have those petty accusations made. its sad but it is what it is unfortunately in fam court :(
     
  16. rosesfromangels

    rosesfromangels Amateur speculations and opinion only

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    Absolutely true. However, this is a high profile homicide case, and the stakes are high all around. I expect LM and his Defense to attempt every trick in the book. The idea is to outmaneuver them preemptively, and avoid them introducing additional distraction and deflection.
    JMO of course.

    Amateur opinion and speculation
     
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  17. cvaldez1975

    cvaldez1975 Well-Known Member

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    i definitely agree. i feel bad though its just so intrusive.
     
  18. Niner

    Niner Long time Websleuther

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    Wednesday, Dec. 1st:
    *GVRO Hearing (re guns) (@ am PT) - CA - *May “Maya” Millete (39) (last seen @ home on Jan. 7, 2021, near San Miguel Ranch area, Chula Vista & reported missing Jan. 9, 2021 by her sister). *Larry Millete (40) charged (10/18/21), arrested (10/19/21) & arraigned (10/21/21) with murder. Plead not guilty. Held without bond. Denied bail (11/4/21).
    *Larry Millete (39/now 40) regarding gun violence restraining order on possession of guns (1/7/21). Plead not guilty.
    Family Court: Tabalanza, Pabilot vs. Millete, Larry
    Case info from 1/7/21 thru 11/4/21 reference post #25 here:
    CA - CA - Maya Millete, 39, missed daughter's birthday, Chula Vista, 7 Jan 2021 *husband arrested* #5

    11/8/21 Update: Millete & his parents, Benito & Judith Millete, filed the objection on Nov. 8, stating, “May Millete, the children’s mother has not been served with the Petition for Appointment of Guardianship.” Probate court hearing on petition for temporary guardianship on 11/10/21 & hearing in the same court for permanent guardianship on 1/19/22. GVRO hearing on 12/1/21. Murder: Preliminary exam readiness hearing on 12/16/21 & preliminary exam hearing on 2/28/22.
    11/10/21 Update: Guardianship: Probate Judge Julia Craig Kelety rules Millete children will remain with Larry Millete’s parents for now. She ordered May’s family will be granted weekly visits starting 11/14/21. The judge ordered Larry's parents to find mental-health care providers for the children. The next hearing on the children's custody has been scheduled for 1/4/22 & 1/19/22.
     
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  19. Niner

    Niner Long time Websleuther

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    Does anyone have a link to the gun possession charge - case #21FL005040S it's in San Diego-South County - thought I had the correct link - but it's not showing the case #...

    TIA if anyone can help me find the next court hearing for his guns - or was it settled in the last hearing?? [​IMG]
     
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  20. Seattle1

    Seattle1 #LiveLikeLizzy

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    Sorry, @Niner -- there's an error message for me seeking anything about LM in the courts:

    Court Index Error Page

    Your request cannot be completed. The server got the following error:
    Error Message: getCases() error: Closed Connection

    Online Case Search | Superior Court of California - County of San Diego
     

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