Found Alive CA - Sherri Papini, 34, Redding, 2 November 2016 - #3

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  1. sumzero

    sumzero Well-Known Member

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    Sure hope you're right. It could also mean they've arrived at a dead end and don't know what else to do.
     


  2. sumzero

    sumzero Well-Known Member

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    Well said.
     
  3. Knox

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    CBS8 was supposed to run a story on the PI the family hired tonight, anyone find it?
     
  4. AceDetective

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    Great observation. I saw that comment, but failed to notice it was posted only two weeks ago.

    I couldn't help but notice she was selling large quantities of maternity clothes. I took that to mean no more kids were planned.

    So this is very interesting. Pregnancy would be a huge risk factor.

    It seems like something that Keith would mention. If he knew, that is.
     
  5. Tuliptiptoe

    Tuliptiptoe Well-Known Member

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    Maybe she knew she wanted more in the future, but was not planning anytime soon.

    Also, with pinterest it's possible that's not her quote, but someone that pinned it before her. Imo it does seem more like a quote someone would make before they had kids, not someone that already has 2. Why wouldn't one of them love superheroes like her?
     
  6. AceDetective

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    That's an excellent point on the 'supermom' label. That was something said by the sisters and the media just ran with it. They love that sort of thing.

    But it doesn't mean that everybody always called her a supermom. It was just one person, and another agreeing. It could well be the only time anybody ever actually called her a supermom.

    So maybe too much is being made of this supermom label. Very good point.

    If we take that away, everything becomes much more normal.
     
  7. formerreddingrunner

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    Geek Squad wages are not that good..it was linked to in the post. And I didn't say it was minimum wage, I said essentially minimum wage. I had a friend who worked at the Redding Best Buy Geek Squad, so I know what I'm talking about.

    Still not enough to support a family, they could've been heavily in debt "keeping up with the Jones" **which may have contributed to her mental state. Jobs are not easy to come by in Redding. It is a very economically depressed region of the country - some people won't understand this unless they live there.
     
  8. gngr~snap

    gngr~snap Verified Pediatric Nurse Georgia

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    There is a pin from 1 month ago on her "Nutrition" board.
    Bland diet - gut health- bone broth... I am not sure how to link it without my pinterest attaching to it.
    Is it possible that she had Celiac?
    I do and I couldn't gain weight until after I was diagnosed at 38!
    Seems like she had a lot of migraine pins as well.
    Could be a side effect of gluten allergy or stress or stopping caffeine.
    Something was going on, I am not certain that it was a pregnancy or that it had anything at all to do with her disappearance, but I thought I would mention it.

    ETA: it was 1 month ago not 2 weeks. I corrected my post.
     
  9. formerreddingrunner

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    GUYS, WE'VE BEEN THROUGH THIS. SORRY TO SPEAK IN ALL CAPITALS BUT WHEN YOU ARE "PINNING" SOMETHING ON PINTEREST THE WORDS ARE SAVED FROM THE PERSON WHO FIRST POSTED THE PICTURE. E.G. TRY YOURSELF TO "PIN" THE BABY BOOTS THAT SHERRI DID...THE SAME WORDS WILL COME UP "I will have to make these for my future kid! And yes, my future kid will be a nerd who loves Super Heros, like me!" SHERRI DIDN'T WRITE THAT STATEMENT, IT WAS CONNECTED TO THE PERSON WHO UPLOADED THE PHOTO! I'm assuming she probably pinned them for her 2-year-old daughter.

    Yes, I noticed the same thing; she was selling lots of maternity clothes on her clothing websites...don't think she was planning any more children.
     
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    If his mother owns the house, it may be KP's childhood home and so it's hard to break the habit of using my home.
     
  11. Tuliptiptoe

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    Those stood out to me as well, and the EO for healing bruises, healing herbs etc. I have an autoimmune disease and a lot of her pins are things I do for similar issues.

    Of course she could have been pinning for a friend or family member as well. She's thin, but she looks very healthy - good skin tone, well rested, etc.

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  12. bluesneakers

    bluesneakers not today satan

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    Good catch.

    IF she had an eating disorder (and I am not saying she did) claiming she had a gluten allergy might have been a way to cover it up. People with eating disorders sometimes use allergies or other health reasons (sometimes referred to as orthorexia) to keep people from interfering with their disordered habits.

    Also IMO discussing an eating disorder is no different from discussing any illness - depression, anxiety, migraines, celiac disease, etc.

    I'm sorry about what you've gone through! I know people often suffer for years before anyone figures out what's going on.
     
  13. 77DarkHorse7

    77DarkHorse7 I've Heard The Sound That Silence Makes...On A Bre

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    It looks like razor burn to me. I wouldn't read too much into it.
     
  14. gitana1

    gitana1 Verified Attorney

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    It appears that Sherri's good looks, trim and fit appearance, beautiful family, posed, professional photos with her husband and kids, her pinterest, which I haven't seen but which I'm getting the sense has a lot of Martha Stewart type Stepfordish things on it, are very triggering for people.

    Sherri is about as opposite from me as it can get. (Except I jog and am not overweight). I'm a tomboy. I wear the same black t's and jeans, or cords or cargo pants and Chuck Taylors every day. I don;t get manicures or dye the grey that's starting to come in. I don;t wear foundation. I don't take professionally posed photos outside business. I;m often forgetful, usually have my fly down at home and at work, have a messy house and office, am almost never on time except to court, I can be annoyed with my family and yell at times, I;m dark haired, dark eyed and olive, and I do a lot of things that cause my fingernails to be dirty a lot.
    I don;t care about perception or status or money.

    So? Nothing about Sherri indicates to me that she's insane or suicidal or at her wits end, even though she's much more perfect than I could ever hope to be. Some people are like that. Probably few sleuthers though as they spend too much time sleuthing to be perfect.

    If she does have issues, we will find out. But for now, just having herself very together doesn;t mean she's got problems.

    Right. In fact, that IS part of the search effort. Which they would not be doing if they felt this was not an abduction.

    It may be too early on. So many times it takes months or years to figure out a crime. Not all are quickly solvable. Many are not. And usually we have no idea what LE has or knows. So far it looks to me like they have been open in their investigation and have looked at EVERY angle - voluntary missing, family homicide, abduction, suicide, whatever it may be.

    Thank you. She looks super healthy to me. Bright eyes, great skin tone, good weight.

    My law partner's dad did it. he was divorced and wanted to protect his son.

    Is anyone saying it;s not a possibility? We are all aware of what can happen and has happened. But for me there is zero evidence to make that such a certain possibility. It's also quite a hurtful thing for her loved ones, to know people are accusing her of doing that to her kids and family with zero evidence, just hunches based on not liking her pinterest or that she used daycare sometimes. IMO.

    Oh I hope you're right!!!!!
     
  15. 77DarkHorse7

    77DarkHorse7 I've Heard The Sound That Silence Makes...On A Bre

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    He also said that here. 'I want to be home when she comes home'
     
  16. Eloise

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    It is most certainly a Pinterest weakness. Of course you *can* change it, but you have to do so manually. It should be the *default* that it wipes the comment. Nearly every person I follow on Pinterest does the same as me and leaves the original comment on there. It's messy and there is no easy way to tell at a glance where the caption should be attributed to.

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  17. AceDetective

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    :) :) :)

    Well, people argued about it. And it sure looked like she wrote it.

    Anyway, I tested it out to find out for sure, and you're right. It copies the comment over and makes it look like you wrote it. What a dumb system. There should be some sort of indication.

    So, okay, we're back to selling her maternity clothes probably means no more children were planned.

    Here's my test:

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  18. 77DarkHorse7

    77DarkHorse7 I've Heard The Sound That Silence Makes...On A Bre

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    It probably was from her though. She was training for the 'superrun' after all.
     
  19. gitana1

    gitana1 Verified Attorney

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    So the photo attached shows three different salaries for this job description. The lowest two are hourly at $18 an hour, and $19-21 per hour and the last is salaried at $53,000 per year. Big disparity but none are close to being essentially minimum wage.

    The lowest is almost double minimum wage at $37,440.00 per year. The middle one is $41,600.00 per year, which is exactly twice as much as minimum wage and the last, at $53,000.00, is 60% higher than minimum wage.

    The cost of living is slightly higher in Redding than the national average, which means it is pretty good! The average rents are $1,200.00 per month there and the median home value there is $239,500.00. Man, compared to my county, where the median home values are $661,500.00 and the average rents are $2,300.00, I think they can survive in Redding on 40k per year. That's even doubly so if they had savings from her former employment or are living in a relative's home, possibly paying even less than average there.

    And based on his age and their standard of living, I;m betting he was salaried.

    There are just zero signs that this family is struggling economically right now. Nothing. It's just speculation. Sure, it might be true. So many things could. I'm guessing that LE knows almost the whole picture as to their finances, her health, stressors, their marriage, family problems, etc. by this point. But again, I don't see suspicion based on hunch to be grounds for such certainty:
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    Her pinterest is Her pinterest. I know everyone is looking for something there because they don't have anything else to go on, but let me note again that I don't know how much you can gather from it.. It's not a facebook page, its not a twitter, you can not know her from it... Yes, In these places you can post anything you want, I know, but pinterest is not a social media page, it's a bunch of pictures of things you find interesting.. Whether it can tell you who a person is or not is a different story.
     
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