I agree 100% with what you just said.We also read in past posts and articles that Noah had asked HS for $$ to buy clothes and MS was angry as she already said no and that he had thousands of dollars in shoes he never wore in his room.
IMO Mary is not acting suspicious I think she lost her best friends and does not know how to live without them. I think MS was frugal like her sister and Barry, I think the kids are not so thoughtful in what or how they spend Barry’s money.
I also think Mary and her husband being so close to Honey and Barry BEFORE Barry was so wealthy, we’re treated very well as he grew his fortune, they would have been his supporters as he built APOTEX.
IMO none of the children helped or supported Barry to get where he was, but Honey, Mary and her husband did. They may have deserved more than us outsiders think.