As my husband brought me flower's, my kids who are 16 and 18 gave me a big hug, told me they are glad that I am always there for them, and then we will be going out to an early dinner with my MIL. My thoughts turned to the A's. If my daughter was unable to come and see me, nothing could stop me from seeing my daughter. The A's having spent the last year going through he** it seems to me that enough time has past to just visit the jail and talk about love and how much everyone misses the "normal" life that they led. I would have Caylee on my mind but her name wouldn't have to be brought up. Who cares if it is video taped, if the case isn't discussed no harm done. What does everyone else think about this or am I just naive about how truly dysfunctional this family may be?