I found it to be her overall attitude that was coming off as the most grating. There's something off in her responses. The detectives are trying to figure out what happened and where she can offer insight. She's not coming at this from trying to help them piece this together and anything he might have said or did that would be relevant. I thought the detectives were amicable and easygoing with her. And the fact that they would need to verify different things is extremely understandable under the circumstances. They were completely in line with their questioning. And she was so aggressive. She also sounded completely tone deaf to what they were trying to get at and just went on and on about herself.I know some REALLY want to make the disgust about NK about sexism. It's just not. IMO. People have been criticizing CW's speech from day one. Relentlessly. Is that because of sexism against him?
Men have vocal fry and upseak too and it drives me crazy.
But other than being annoyed, I don't give a damn about her voice. I give a damn about her inflection, arrogance, evasivessness, self-centeredness and overall lack of empathy in the context of a major crime investigation.
I wish people would please stop accusing others of being sexist because they do not like this woman or condone her actions. To me it's a disingenuous way of trying to undermine other's opinions of this woman. We disagree. That's okay. It's not like people are creating scenarios or making things up about this woman out of left field based on nothing but innuendo and rumor, like was done with Shannan. Then I might question the motives. But here I think there are solid bases for the disdain, even though people can have different views about it. No need to continually accuse people of sexism to prove their opinions are wrong here.
I find it offensive.
And the blasé attitude of, "ya I don't remember." Or very inappropriate, self-absorbed monologues. I cannot imagine being in the middle of a murder investigation and taking this opportunity to tell the investigator all about my personal macro nutrients. I literally was doing a face palm listening to her. It just felt like the NK show. People can have annoying voices, but if they are being genuine and caring, their character would still come through. I don't know. Maybe it's just her personality - rough around the edges and a bit uncouth. But the narcissism and self-importance is what was coming through the loudest to me. Imo and all that usual disclaimers.