My point is that he put himself into a rage. Anyway, who cares what exact words preceded his losing control of himself, why would you believe him anyway? Maybe he said ."Guess what, I'm going on a schedule of working every other week and my mistress and I are taking the kids 8 days at a time. Or maybe he said, man, you are lousy in bed but she's great! Would that have given Shan'ann licence to murder him, because what he said put her into a rage? If a person goes into a murderous rage it is their own fault.