Discussion in 'Missing Persons Discussion' started by Mysti88c, May 12, 2020.
I agree, highly suspicious activity, however still too much doubt
When I am using either my iPhone or iPad, if I turn on airplane mode it immediately disconnects my wifi connection and my carrier signal and I have no Internet access - so I am still very confused! I just checked with my husband who is in IT and he confirmed that what I understood is correct.
IMO, the tranquilizer dart could explain some time elements. For example, how long had Suzanne been incapacitated? This could contribute to the fact that dogs were unable to pick-up a decomposing scent. This gave BM more time to put the plan in motion. I believe he had envisioned the scenario for a while. And everything just fit that Mother's Day weekend. IMO
I’m guessing that all of these outfits did not make their way back to Salida?
They were old friends from school so I'm sure he found out that way. I live in a small town like they were from in Indiana and if someone from here was missing, everyone in this town would know about it.
The man of many disguises
Not necessarily. They went to high school together and had friends in common. So it could have been a mutual friend, that didn't know about the affair, just knew they were old friends.
Wow, I hadn't thought about that part of it. He could keep her stashed at home for awhile, but she wouldn't be picked up by the cadaver dogs when they come sniffing.
The same with his vehicle. He could have had her incapacitated, but quiet and easy to transport. He may have taken her to a more remote setting, to do the final act.
I am wondering if she was buried under a tree that was planted. But I would think that they already looked at every recent big tree from that few days.
MOO most people in a family who get along like using FMIP.
Yesterday was incredibly intense.
I would like to say thank you so much, to everyone who provided the Tweets, so much appreciated to keep us up to date. And a very special thank you to @NoSI for being there. Also a big thank you to @Niner for the summary, great to be able to refer back to it.
The tranquilizer dart was absolutely shocking to me. And horrifying. It made me think of the guy in Alaska who dumped women in the woods and told them to run.
BM approached Suzanne like she was prey. He neutralized her before he took her out. And the possibility he was chasing her, heart wrenching.
Remember when Profiling Evil mentioned the dark web? Could BM have been looking for the drugs for the darts there? They don't seem like something you can just order from Amazon. You have to get the actual tranquilizer somewhere. Could he have had the darts leftover from his deer farm, needed to find the tranquilizer since he no longer had a deer farm and an excuse for having it? I wonder if LE was able to trace where the darts came from, like a lot number or something on the dart?
I really want to know who's number the early morning phone call was.
I don't know what to think about J not coming forward. That's really hard to get around.
Another thing that will be really difficult to get around is BM's movements that week-end, the trash dumps, the hotel, the non-job,the dart with the lame chipmunk explanation; all of that, his defense is either going to need to provide an explanation, which would require putting BM on the stand, disaster waiting to happen, imo. Or they can try to poke holes in the evidence. I think we've seen some of that with their emphasis on the electronic data. I also think the defense is doing a great job of running down the clock. The judge appears to be losing patience with that.
I think they are very close to the threshold, but will need the next two days in the schedule to firm everything up. I also have a feeling there is even more damning information to come. I want to hear more about finances, too. I think that is going to be a very big factor.
All my opinion/speculation
Sbm. Sadly, pornography is a huge industry. According to this website--Statistics on Pornography, Sexual Addiction and Online Perpetrators and their Effects on Children, Pastors and Churches -70% of men in the 18-34 age range visit a pornographic website in a typical month. I don't know what the statistics are for BM's age group. His behavior in this regard may be considered "normal" (statistically speaking).
The spy pen tidbit is fascinating. As is the cat/mouse game of SM tracking BM’s phone, and him putting his phone on airplane mode. Sounds like a Cold War in that home
Who is SO?
About SM having a boyfriend….totally understandable if BM had been using threats of violence and suicide to prevent her from leaving. She left mentally. I wish she would’ve left physically
We haven't seen the AA. We only have probably 25% of the cell phone & truck data. I would expect several more bombshells. The DA only has to bind him over, not prove beyond a reasonable doubt at this stage.
As those who have quoted MacBeth, I am convinced the truth will continue to be as strange or stranger than fiction.
That's my humble opinion.
SO is Suzanne's BFF in IN
I was thinking Significant Other, and was very confused.
Well, I respectfully disagree with you on that.
Many DV victims are geographically isolated feel that have no where else to go.
I think the question was whether a call could be received. The answer is no. However, a call can come in snd go to voicemail. When you turn airplane mode off, you will find you received a call. Happens to me a lot.
Wow, good work getting that extra info.
It wasn't a cold war, it's a classic case of domestic violence. The perpetrator is not just a narcissist, he's a murderous narcissist.
All of his threats were pure manipulation and indicative of serious mental illness. The amount of control he exerted in that home is a violation of a Christian father's sacred duty to love his wife as Christ loved the church. But beyond that, he manipulated others with his twisted use of scriptures and severe gaslighting behaviors.
It will continue even if he never sets foot outside jail or prison again. His daughters need to make a break with him. His level of manipulative behavior makes him toxic! And we've only seen a fraction of what's in the AA and what was SM's reality.
The only way to escape a TOXIC parent is to cut them out of your life. To his daughters: Stop victimizing yourselves. Wake up! Get supportive psychological care! Walk away from the courtroom and never look back.
Awesome @Niner im adding to the media thread