All this media coverage on her essay of "Cutting" is really bothering me. It in no way indicates she was a cutter, and even if she was, that makes it ok for those kids to stalk and harrass her? that makes her suicide ok? It kills me that she is being victimized even in death. I am not sure the correct place to put this, but I just wanted to introduce myself since I am kind of a newbie. I have been on WS since 2008, the CA case brought me here. I lived in Orlando for 5 years and the locations were all very familiar to me, and I also have a 3 yo with the same name. I have been following the Phoebe case, and found that WS had this subforum, I am so happy to have a place to discuss this case with people that care. Phoebe has been on my mind every day since her death. I have never cried over one person so much before, and I didn't even know her. I was a cutter in high school and suicidal as well. I could almost feel her pain, even though I was not bullied to the extent she was. My mother went to SHHS for one year and was bullied as well, by the lacrosse team. Two childhood friends had to leave SHHS in the 90's because they were bullied so bad. But what I find the most confusing is that every single male I know that went to SHHS denies there was/is a problem and agrees the media should go away. My best friend in high school was D.S. daughter. I wonder what he would have done if that happened to her. Just wanted to explain myself since I am on post #5 but have been here since 2008.