K_Z
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I don't understand the investment in the language in the section quoted above, and I believe, the determination to get the family to accept the framing that she is already dead, against how they're interpreting the evidence of their own eyes has significantly contributed to the breakdown in the relationship between the family and medical professionals (the fact that her condition may have arisen out of medical error, probably hasn't helped, either). I also don't think that framing is necessary. It's enough to say that she is irreversibly injured, and cannot recover. It may have been that, as her physical condition deteriorated, her family might have been able to come to terms with that, without being driven up this hill that they now feel they can't climb down from.
Respectfully snipped for space and focus. BBM.
I'm a little confused as to what you mean by the investment in language? I do believe that multiple medical professionals explained the futility of the situation to NW and her family. I do think they stressed that Jahi's condition was irreversible.
It would be morally and ethically wrong for the physicians and social workers to do otherwise, in addition to being against state law and lots of other policies.
A family cannot be misled that there is an "injury" that is severe, and leave the door open to their interpretation that there is some possibility of recovery, when there is none. There are multiple laws and policies that define how death will be diagnosed, and what that means. It isn't an "optional diagnosis" that families are free to accept or reject. I'm not sure from your UK comments if you are perhaps not in the U.S., but we cannot indefinitely maintain brain dead individuals in our ICU's until the family comes to terms with the diagnosis-- however long that might be.
Families have to be told that a loved one is dead, gently. Then, if they don't understand, or reject the diagnosis of death, the message has to be consistent, and sometimes rather blunt.
Here is an excellent discussion I've linked in previous threads, between several prominent physicians, as they discuss "difficult families" and the discussion of brain death. They discuss how they each deal with these situations, and offer strategies for breaking thru denial by family members. It's a great opportunity to be a fly on the wall, observing their discussion. (It is blunt-- advisory.)
http://www.ccm-l.org/discussion1/Ethics/uncoop.html