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Discussion in 'Crimes-Spotlight on Children' started by GetSmart, Jan 25, 2011.

  1. GetSmart

    GetSmart New Member

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    Man made girlfriend watch attack on daughter


    PUNTA GORDA - A 32-year-old man is accused of forcing his girlfriend to watch while he sexually assaulted her 12-year-old daughter three times.
    Charlotte County Sheriff's deputies said the attack happened Wednesday morning at the mother's home. Jerome Nubin of Punta Gorda is charged with sexual battery on a 12-year-old, aggravated assault, kidnapping and domestic battery. He is being held without
    bond in the Charlotte County Jail.
    Detectives said Nubin threatened the mother and child with a baseball bat. He also slapped and punched the mother before assaulting the child.

    http://www.myfoxtampabay.com/dpp/ne...-attack-on-daughter-apx-012011?obref=obinsite

    I am looking for an update on this story
     
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  3. Salem

    Salem Former Member

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    Okay - if this were me - this POS should pray they not let him out, because I would be waiting for him.

    Nuff said,

    Salem
     
  4. katydid23

    katydid23 Verified Juanette

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    Seriously. I don't even know them and I feel like waiting for him myself.
     
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    Peliman New Member

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    I wasn't quite sure how to say it but you two did well.

    Here's a previous with a mug shot from earlier.

    http://www.floridamugshots.us/Arrests/Jerome_Nubin_4542355/
     
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    pulled what I could on a really quick criminal check, juvenile record, convictions for resisting arrest, did time for assaulting someone, released on conditional parole as a violent felon
     
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    I hardly know what to say....that wouldnt earn me a TO that is.

    Life in prison sounds like a good sentence...for starters.
     
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    Hmmph, this brings the barbarian instincts to the surface. i would find great pleasure in participating in.............whatever you all want to do with this guy. :D
     
  9. believe09

    believe09 Active Member

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    I dont doubt that he roughed up GF and daughter. I wonder what I would have done with that BB bat while he was distracted by my child? I know what I like to think I would have done.

    I am not blaming her or implying she should have done differently-I am just saying that I hope I would have grabbed the bat and knocked his melon in while he wasnt looking.

    ETA: Go grandpa Go for filing the complaint...Mom must be devastated.
     
  10. not_my_kids

    not_my_kids New Member

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    I truly think the only answer for this guy is life without parole, and that's only because we can't kill him.

    This was not a pedo, this was a man with an all consuming need for control, not just of his victim, but of her mother, as well. He's less than one full step away from murder, IMO.
    Please don't let him out.
     
  11. Salem

    Salem Former Member

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    I should ignore this believe - it makes my stomach jumpy. I understand why this mother didn't do anything. She was paralyzed because if she made the wrong move, he could hurt her child more :( I probably would have done the same in an effort to spare my child. But once my child was safe, all bets are off!

    I don't think there is anything more cruel, kwim? Take all your power because ..... ugh I can't write anymore. It is too ugly for me :furious::furious:
     
  12. Missizzy

    Missizzy New Member

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    Wishing harm on those who have harmed others does no one any good, IMO. The focus needs to be on the child and helping her heal from this traumatic event. Needless energy is spent on retribution and retribution never pays off in the end. Our greatest teachers have taught us this. Listen to the words of Gandhi, Jesus, or Martin Luther King. Violence that begets violence leads us in a vicious circle.

    My heart goes out the young girl and I pray that she will be strong enough to move on, heal and forgive. There is no real explanation for evil but it is within each victim's ability to forgive. Therein lies our true power.
     
  13. impatientredhead

    impatientredhead New Member

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    You are a better and kinder person than myself.
    Wishing harm on him may do no good for mankind.
    Wondering why moms date violent felons will never be answered.

    But giving up on this idea that we can release predators into society and expect that they will be anything other than what they are might. Releasing people with labels like "Conditional Violet Felon Release" makes about as much sense to me as releasing "Likely to Reoffend Sex Offender".
     
  14. Texas Mist

    Texas Mist Retired WS Staff

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    This article says he threatened to cut the little girl's throat - so the mom probably was terrified he'd hurt her more.

    http://www.winknews.com/Local-Florida/2011-01-20/Punta-Gorda-man-arrested-accused-of-raping-child
     
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    tlcya Well-Known Member

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    awful, horrible, bullying, disgusting piece of "humanity".

    I sincerely hope this girl and her mother are being counseled and getting all the resources they need to move past this.

    I also sincerely hope the beast gets plenty of hard time in which to meet lots of other awful, horrible, bullying, disgusting pieces of humanity.
     
  16. GetSmart

    GetSmart New Member

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    It is once again a mother making a bad decision about WHO she brings into her life and home...
     
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    Missizzy New Member

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    I never ever said that the man should be released. He's committed a horrendous crime and must pay dearly for that. My focus is always on the victim, however, and on just what caused a man to commit an act like this.
     
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    I wasn't suggesting that you did.
    My point was we released him the first time he harmed someone.
    This girl would not have been repeatedly raped if we kept violent people in jail and stopped pretending they get better when we lock them up.

    We aren't talking about breaking into houses when no one is at home, doing time for selling drugs. Violent crimes shouldn't get the chance to have more victims.
     
  19. LotsaLatte

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    I am fuming! This is absolutely inexcusable and I pray this "man" never walks out of prison! And people thought I went overboard when I did a background check before I dated anyone after I was divorced. This poor little girl. No way should that pile of dung ever be allowed to hurt, threaten, or frighten anyone again.
     
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    Missizzy New Member

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    I'm not at all trying to be disrespectful. The man who raped my eight children was released after serving ten years. He did his allotted time for multiple rape and sodomy 1 convictions of children between the ages of 7 and 12.

    I've had to come to peace with the fact that he could harm any of us again as he has no much anger and hatred due to issues unknown to me. I happen to be a pacifist and there are not black and white areas in that belief system. I wish him no harm as that would lower me to the crimes that he committed. I'd like it if he could have therapy.

    I, too, want convicted child abusers locked up. I'd also like to see them get some treatment but that rarely happens. And sentencing guidelines hardly ever allow a full lifetime of lock up.

    I've dedicated my life to making sure that the general public is aware of the people who commit these crimes. But there is often a reason that people choose this path. I'm always looking for a societal cause of violence so that we might be able to stop this awful cycle. I was trying to state that I don't find hurtful statements or wishes of violence on any person, no matter what crime they've committed, to help with healing. Children who have been raped or assaulted look to us for a pathway to safety and peace.

    I'm so sorry I upset you. That was not my intention.
     
  21. Filly

    Filly KICKING AND SHINING

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    Did you see that guys mugshot and his charges? A bat wouldn't put a dent in his dome and he'd wind up busting the mom's head in.

    Someone like that guy? You'd have to wait until he went to sleep or was drunk. Waking up to two busted kneecaps would work. Accident and all. What would he do? Report it?

    Bless you Izzy. You are a kinder person. I know I don't have it in me to forgive someone that hurt my family. I so know that.
     

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