I watched the Disappeared episode a couple of weeks ago. It has really bothered me. I feel like the family's silence after the body was found is due to the fact there is an on going investigation that they do not want to jeopardize. They have their son/brother/friend back to give a proper burial to, which as horrible and unbearable as it seems, it is something some families do not have a chance to do. If there is even a slim chance they will find the person responsible (if not a suicide) being silent is a small price to pay. I lost my sister to suicide and know that everyone grieves differently. Some feel the need to be proactive and speak out about suicide prevention, others retreat inward. Whatever their actions, they should not be judged.