I couldn't link it, maybe as it's an old thread, but here is the posts from TM's friend (HeartRuledHead) followed by my reply.
[quote name="HeartRuledHead" post=8096533]Many thanks for the welcome
Perhaps having no self esteem and being venerable is her crime then.
Who knows what moment of weakness he caught her on. It's easy to assume and judge... isn't it. Why not have a little bit of compassion for a woman not only being accused of this by some but who also just found out she feel for not just a every day sleaze but a murderer.
If someone you loved killed someone, you are not responsible - you are a victim.
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Would you have compassion for the woman who was cheating with your husband ?
As my name implies I have opinions, and I express those without compunction.
Had TM felt bad for her actions and left the affair and NOT re-entered the relationship a scant 2 months later, them PERHAPS some degree of compassion could be illicited.....