HELP! Need ideas on how to stop someone.

Discussion in 'A CALL TO ACTION! Calif. DMH Illegally Releases 17' started by Jennerbear, Jan 3, 2009.

  1. Bark

    Bark New Member

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    Its unfortunate to be said, but laws like rape has a statutes of limitation. If it happened "years ago" then I'm afraid that the bastard is "clean" in the eyes of the law. Some states are attempting to change their rape laws, but not all have been on board and still continue to hold statutes of limitations and strict definitions of rape.

    I know that this thread was posted 5 years ago, but Jennerbear, if you are still looking for the man, I could do a quick search if you're still around. Trust me, I've located many men in the past few months alone and I'm sure I could find that man, too.
     
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    db3354 New Member

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    Do not let anyone tell you there is a statute of limitations on reporting rape. As for the state of California's early release of rapists, solicit signatures on an online petition as well as approaching friends/family, church members, etc. Always include the State Attorney General's office. He/She is an attorney and is the first one I would approach. The next step would be to address ,in person, the governor of California. The media is a great source of informing the public of the follow-up of the government. Also, contact any rape crisis groups, as they are a good source of information and connections. MOST IMPORTANTLY, DO NOT QUIT. DO NOT LET ANYONE STOP YOU FROM GETTING ANSWERS!

    You also may want to contact your State Lawmakers, your State Law Enforcement Division and the State Bureau of Investigation.
     
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    oldwindow Member

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    You can sue him for it, Theres' no limitation on that in certain states. All you need is a witness and doctor reviews of the damage, there differ types of ways they see these things.. Prove it was intentional not careless or common mistake.


    Take him to civil court and sue him for sex abuse.
     
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    zwiebel New Member

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    I am not a member of Facebook and can not see this. Is this a book? I would like to see it.
     
  5. Tulessa

    Tulessa Well-Known Member

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    Hi sweetheart. I'm going to PM a lawyer, and get her to give her take on the legalities on this. God bless you, and take care of your sister. I will keep checking in. :)
     
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    Hey dude, keep your head up. At the moment the best thing to do would be to embarrass him. Lower public opinion about him and publicly shame him. Start a website/fb/tumblr/twitter to expose him. If he tries to sue, use that against him. Make sure to talk to his students and if theres someone who CAN sue. Someone whose statute of limitations isn't up. Make sure they call your relatives as witness. Hope the situation is solved.
     
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    I really hope that something can be done maybe this will help your family find closure.This is a very difficult situation and I have been through this. unfortunately the abuser did abuse another child and is now unemployed.No jail time which is upsetting but, does have to register under Megans law.
     
  8. Jennerbear

    Jennerbear New Member

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    He retired from teaching. I talked to a lawyer and there is nothing I can do that won't bring legal ramifications. Thought I would give an update.
     
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    Did you ask the lawyer if everything was "anonymous" postings on the internet and newspaper? There are ways to out him without it being directly tied to you. Just saying.
     
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    I don't know if this has already been suggested, so my apologies if it has, but do you have any agencies where you live or that are close to where you live that specialize in victim advocacy for sexual assault/abuse survivors? If you do I would go to them and explain the situation. They might be able to help you with figuring out how to go about everything, including handling the legal system. I know where I live the center we have here helps survivors with that stuff. It could be worth checking out. I'm crossing my fingers for you. I also know firsthand how frustrating the legal system can be when it comes to sexual assault/abuse. I'm sorry you have to go through all of this<3
     
  11. TeaTime

    TeaTime Well-Known Member

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    Write him a letter and let him know that everyone knows what kind of monster he is. Tell him how he ruined the lives of your sisters, your family and how the horror he inflicted stills haunts you all today. Let him know that you are telling the world all about him and will rejoice when he dies and is greeted by Satan and that you will P*** on his grave.

    Tell your sisters to choose to not let him continue to ruin their lives, there is so much more than just those years being a victim. Be a victor! The best revenge is a great life.
     
  12. physco219

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    I think a number of us (at least I would) wouldn't mind sending him a little letter just letting him know we know and we'll be watching and waiting and letting others know of his pervsions just pm me and we could do that.

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    You may also want to contact his local police department and let them know what he has done to your family. They might have some "cold case/unsolved" crimes in their jurisdiction that need a possible new clue. Good luck.
     

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