compared to eveyone elses. My partner lost his father when he was a baby in the Korean War. He never knew what happened and posted on a Korean War site asking if anyone knew his father, knew what happened etc. This was several years ago. A few days before the hurricaine hit he received an email from someone from just north of new orleans.....he knew his dad and was with him when he was killed. He left his phone number. The only person in years responds and now he can't get in touch.....maybe he isn't meant to know.....isn't this all soooo ironic?