indicolite22
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If grandparents don't count as immediate family, why was Arhcibald trying to take the grandmother title away from Kay?
That’s not how I read the Idaho Constitution, alas. The Woodcocks are not considered victims because they are not immediate family. Even if they were considered de facto grandparents or aunt/uncle, they wouldn’t fit the bill. This is a mess.
If grandparents don't count as immediate family, why was Arhcibald trying to take the grandmother title away from Kay?
If for some legal reason the Woodcock's are stripped of their right to be classed as Grandparent's to JJ, I am left wondering just who in the hell is going to be able to claim his remains so he can be laid to rest after these trials? I remember Kay and Larry being so visibly upset because he and Tylee's remains had never been released.
I apologize if my post is too much, but there is so much hatred and evil in Lori that she will do anything just to hurt others.
I hope the victimhood criteria for non-immediate family isn't living in the same household as the murder victim(s). It wouldn't matter if the person is a grandparent or an uncle/aunt.I'm not so sure and I think all of this debate about the definition of immediate family is a red herring.
You don't need to be immediate family to be a victim. You need to have been harmed significantly by the crimes. If you happen to be "immediate family" of a homicide victim, you are statutorily a victim. So, say, Colby, as the brother of a homicide victim, would be statutorily a victim even if he were lucky enough to have not been very harmed- such as if he never had known he had had siblings before their passing. (Although that would be a mind *advertiser censored*** too.)
Kay and Karry, in my opinion we're very harmed by this homicide, especially JJ's. They were his first parent figures when he was itty and vulnerable and fragile. When he was adopted, they stayed close with him as grandparents rather than parents, even when he lived very far away. When Lori dussapeared, they co-parented with Charles, including having JJ stay at their home- with which he was very familiar- at times. They face timed with him several times a day. They were very close to him. Losing him victimized them greatly.
Then, when they were correctly concerned for his safety (as well as their own, increasingly, as the puzzle was coming together) they were vilified by the accused murderers and their supporters in public. Accused of attempting to kidnap JJ. Accused of being part of a fictional murder plot against Lori. They were dragged through the media and largely supported, but with plenty of hurtful accusations and questions such as about ghe decision to allow him to be adopted in the first place. Leaving the media spotlight was not an option unless they were willing to give up on their JJ.
There relationship with JJ was as close as any immediate family- and they endured not only the loss but being accused of the same crimes it turned out the accused allegedly committed- by the accused.
Whether they are kinship foster parents, biological grandparents or aunt and uncle by adoption is an off topic question. The question is: Are they victims?
IMO, the answer is clearly "Yes!" That makes their relationship to the victims irrelevant.
Therefore, they should be allowed to watch the entire trial (If they wish) even if they may be called as witnesses.
MOO
How does reclassifying Kay affect SS's status? I was under the impression that SS wouldn't testify against Lori, so no reason for the defense to keep her out for jury purposes (her presence wouldn't negatively affect the jurors).The paranoid part of me says: to keep Shiftlet out.
MOO
But why?The paranoid part of me says: to keep Shiftlet out.
MOO
How does reclassifying Kay affect SS's status? I was under the impression that SS wouldn't testify against Lori, so no reason for the defense to keep her out for jury purposes (her presence wouldn't negatively affect the jurors).
I hope the victimhood criteria for non-immediate family isn't living in the same household as the murder victim(s). It wouldn't matter if the person is a grandparent or an uncle/aunt.
Are Charles' oldest sons considered immediate family in this case and victims by default? Or perhaps they are not on the witness list and don't need to worry about being barred from attending?
I am worried that Kay and Larry won't be given seats unless they obtain reservations even if they have completed testifying to top it all off, if this is not properly settled.
Immediate family members could technically be estranged, so probably not all the same criteria apply for non-immediate members or non-family.Unless I. found a significant reason NOT to do so, and I would have all my staff and half my family researching this, I woukd rule like this as a judge:
I woukd say that the law was written suggesting that immediate family is automatically considered to be a direct victim of a homicide. Therefore, a person in a relationship equivalent to immediate family woukd likewise be directly a victim of a homicide.
An immediate family member does not have to live with the homicide victim. A separated parent might not live with a child. Adult siblings don't typically live together.
Since an immediate family member us presumed to be directly victimized by a homicide, a person in functionally the same relationship as an immediate family member would be directly victimized.
Kay and Larry raised JJ during his earliest days. They were active, hands on grandparents when he lived with his adoptive family. When his adoptive mother fled, they co-parented with his adoptive father. When his adoptive father was murdered, they worked to confirm his safety in his stead. When his adoptive mother was incarcerated, they moved to resume the primary parenting role as guardians. They are as close as an immediate family member. As immediate family members are presumed to be directly victimized by a homicide, they were directly victimized by this homicide.
In addition, they were victimized by the alleged murders suggesting they were plotting to murder them, or take away the (deceased) child.
The statute says a victim has to be directly victimized- and presumes that an immediate family member of a homicide victim is automatically directly victimized. Others can be directly victimized, too. Since the grandparents are very analogous to immediate family member, it follows they were directly impacted.
I am a bit miffed that the prosecution did not properly prepare victims ahead of this trial. I am worried that Kay and Larry won't be given seats unless they obtain reservations even if they have completed testifying to top it all off, if this is not properly settled. I am livid that the defense had to add "nasty" - and distracting nasty at that- by saying KW/LW just named themselves. It changed the subject from where it should be: making sure this is a fair trial and that testimony is not tainted while protecting the rights of the victims.
MOO.
SBM. Which was also not true. Kay was JJ's bio grandmother from the moment he was born. She didn't appoint herself as one. When he was adopted she didn't have to change her status to aunt.I am livid that the defense had to add "nasty" - and distracting nasty at that- by saying KW/LW just named themselves.
MOO.
Didn't the Woodcocks seek to become the legal guardians of JJ while the children were still missing?
hahaha. you are right. my first thought was it looked like funeral makeup...Is no one going to comment on how horrific her jailhouse makeup looks? Good lord, it looks like she hit every branch on the way down.
The matter was not resolved before JJ was found deceased, so it became a moot point.Didn't the Woodcocks seek to become the legal guardians of JJ while the children were still missing?
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Whatever happened to that?
Well, did Lori's Mom help raise Tylee? Physically take care of her? Become concerned when she was missing? Help search for her? Feel distressed as an immediate family member would when she was missing? Or when she learned that she was deceived into believing Tylee was fine? Was her grief similar to the grief an immediate family member would experience when the children were found?SBM. Which was also not true. Kay was JJ's bio grandmother from the moment he was born. She didn't appoint herself as one. When he was adopted she didn't have to change her status to aunt.