There's another factor that likely influences the Daybell children's attitude towards Tammy's death. Chad told them that Tammy was on a mission beyond the veil (BBM). Quotes are from MG's secret recording made around Dec 8, 2019 (Full transcript of Lori Daybell secret phone call recording). He claimed his children could back him up about Tammy's poor health, which they eventually did: "My own children were there. They testified that Tammy had been getting weaker and sick and I begged her to go to the doctor. There’s, she just, her heart was failing her. She was physically falling apart." So her heart was failing her, but she died of asphyxiation. How are these two connected? He confirms that he had a history of visions of Tammy dying: "I’ve been told for years that Tammy would pass away at a young age. I had no idea that Lori would even be a part of my life." Tammy "visited" the children after her death: "I just knew that my life had two segments and that I know Tammy’s on a special mission and she’s with my kids. She’s visited them." If some of the children had dreams about Tammy, they could have believed that she was sending them messages from the other side that confirmed that Chad was telling the truth.