If I were to find my child missing, and I've called the police but need to do 'something-anything' to be pro active. What should be the things that I should (and SHOULDN'T) do. I want my child to be in the news, but don't want it to become a lucrative deal for TV sensationalism. Should I get a lawyer to speak for me or my child? Should I appear in person (complete with no streaked eyes and snotty nose)? Should I have an online presence? How do I maintain a high profile without letting the case become a newsnight 'bombshell'?