swedeheart
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My heart just breaks for Jelani's mother and family. This must be devastating for them.This is very well stated, IMO:
“Bolden Day said in pointing out the differences between Day and Petito’s cases, she isn’t arguing that Petito deserves less, but that Day deserves more. As a mother, Bolden Day said, she understands what Petito’s family is going through and would never minimize their pain.
‘But do you not see us? Do you not see me? Do you not see my son?’
‘He is loved,’ Bolden Day said. ‘He is wanted. He is important.’”
As far as “the state lab [not having] the chemical that is needed to process the DNA,” what kind of BS is that? I mean, c’mon, seriously. It has been well over two weeks since the body was found. I want to know where this came from (State Police Division of Forensic Services declined to comment citing its policy on open cases although the question has nothing to do with Jelani’s case specifically … duh).
From link, just to keep details handy.. rbbm.
It's interesting that Jelani missed a meeting with a faculty member and that prompted the faculty member to contact police. ??From link, just to keep details handy.. rbbm.
''Day, 25, is a graduate student in speech-language pathology at Illinois State University. His family last heard from him on August 23rd. The following morning, security cameras captured him on campus in a button-down shirt and black pants around 7:20 am. His bank account showed he’d bought Starbucks coffee there, but he didn’t show up for a meeting with a faculty member and missed class after that. Instead, security cameras captured him just after 9 a.m. entering a nearby cannabis dispensary wearing shorts and a t-shirt. The faculty member he was supposed to meet with notified the police, because Day’s absence was uncharacteristic and he was not responding to calls or texts. His family filed a missing persons report after failing to reach him within a day; his mother has said he typically calls her several times a day. On August 26th, police found Day’s car abandoned in a wooded area of Peru, Illinois. Inside were the shorts and t-shirt he’d been wearing in the most recent security footage.''
I agree. I wonder why they can't use dental records?Possible he was watched entering the dispensary and then robbed when he left? Suspects hiding in or near the car? They want his stash. They didn't intend to seriously hurt him but things got out of hand? Drive his car out to the woods and take the plates so it takes a little longer to identify? I don't see this being a self-harm situation. Also..WTF is taking so long to identify that body? I get it. Backlogged. Does that include cold cases? Something that can wait so that Jelani's parents can get some answers instead of being stuck in the hell they currently are in not knowing?
Possible he was watched entering the dispensary and then robbed when he left? Suspects hiding in or near the car? They want his stash. They didn't intend to seriously hurt him but things got out of hand? Drive his car out to the woods and take the plates so it takes a little longer to identify? I don't see this being a self-harm situation. Also..WTF is taking so long to identify that body? I get it. Backlogged. Does that include cold cases? Something that can wait so that Jelani's parents can get some answers instead of being stuck in the hell they currently are in not knowing?
New to the thread, so just my first impression, but i think JJ may have thrown his old identity behind and is symbolically trying on a new one...ieI can't help but think the fact he did not go to the meeting on campus that morning has something to do with his disappearance. I just don't know what though.......
I mean, he went to campus, seemingly dressed for a meeting with faculty, bought coffee, then didn't show up to the meeting. Maybe too much pressure and he cracked? I know family strongly denies the possibility of self-harm but you really never know.....
I also find it interesting that the faculty member called the police after missing a meeting and not answering the phone. Did they mean campus police? That seems more likely to me - to call campus police and ask them to check on him. But if it’s local law enforcement that was called, that seems….odd. I don’t know if a single one of my college professors who would’ve done that, for me or anyone else.It's interesting that Jelani missed a meeting with a faculty member and that prompted the faculty member to contact police. ??
Also, the info about the clothing. Is that new or did I miss that?
My question on the possible robbery would be: do we know how much JJ spent at the dispensary? It would be surprising to me if the average customer left the store with enough product to make it worth a thief’s while to commit a personal crime (e.g., “force” someone to give up their stash).
Let’s say I’m wrong and a thief wants his stash - why take the risk to get in his car or get near JJ?
Possible, for sure - but wouldn’t be my guess.
This was after he had already missed “several days” of class, too, though:It's interesting that Jelani missed a meeting with a faculty member and that prompted the faculty member to contact police. ??
Also, the info about the clothing. Is that new or did I miss that?
Same thought. Dispensaries are pretty much all over IL. You also have a limit as to how much you can purchase at one time. So if it was a robbery, it would most likely be for Jelani's money or personal belongings, not for his weed. I understand it might be different in other areas of the country but here in IL it really is not a big deal in the slightest. This makes me think it might have been personal in nature, whoever did this.
This was after he had already missed “several days” of class, too, though:
“Day’s family and an ISU faculty member reported him missing after he did not show up for class for several days and no one could get hold of him.”
“Day's family last spoke to Day on the evening of 8/23/2021. They made attempts to locate him but were unsuccessful. Day also had not shown up to class the past several days.”
As to the clothing, according to Jelani’s mom, only the hat and T-shirt from the dispensary video were found in the car:
“‘At this point, all I know is that my son has on a pair of shorts and his tennis shoes,’ Bolden Day said.
‘Because his hat and his T-shirt were still in his car that he had on from the last place that we know that he was at,’ she added.”
Not sure about Illinois, but here in AZ there is. Also, the amount of THC differs from medical to recreational. Jumping off that thought though, does anyone know how much/what he bought at the dispensary? I know the couple of times I've gone I find myself looking over my shoulder. Of course I'm a short, old lady not a big strapping young man.Is there a limit a
Person can buy at a dispensary?
That's a thought. Too much pressure=cracked. Just went through that with my daughter finishing her undergrad and she was a basketcase. "I just want to be done." filled our house. It sounded like he was eager to get on with the next phase of schooling, but maybe it was pretty overwhelming for him too. Children don't always let us in for fear of worrying us.I can't help but think the fact he did not go to the meeting on campus that morning has something to do with his disappearance. I just don't know what though.......
I mean, he went to campus, seemingly dressed for a meeting with faculty, bought coffee, then didn't show up to the meeting. Maybe too much pressure and he cracked? I know family strongly denies the possibility of self-harm but you really never know.....