A court of law will decide whether he is guilty or not. Meanwhile you have in effect condemned her poor grieving family of fraudulent activity. Your comment regarding how this will assist the defence is without explanation though that is what I asked of you. If what you say is true, it would suggest that Ying Ying is somehow complicit in her own disappearance.. because thats the logic in the words you used. Yes its victim friendly. That is why most of us are here, I would imagine. https://www.corwin.com/sites/default/files/upm-binaries/4949_Adams_Chapter_5_Chinese_Families.pdf This article is peer reviewed and cited and I hope it will assist your understanding.