Found Deceased Ireland - Ruth Maguire, 30, vanished during hen party, Carlingford, Co Louth, Leinster, 16 Mar 2019

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  1. Deckard

    Deckard Active Member

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    The left behind coat and intention of walking to Newcastle I took to be literal (as the crow flies) as it's too far to walk. There was a case local to me years ago when a man late at night declared "I'm for Rathlin!" No ferries that time of night obviously and he was found in the water some days later. RIP
     
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  2. Rosiebones

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    I agree. A pretty high level of impairment seems to be the only logical influence on her behavior so late that evening if LE is seeming to indicate there is no sinister component to it. IMO
     
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  3. Herat

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    The last ferry left 6 hours earlier. She would likely have known that
     
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    Catmammy Opinionated and Owning It

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    What a lot of us have feared.
     
  6. Sera

    Sera Well-Known Member

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    Oh no, I've only just checked the thread since this morning. How awful. As others have said though, at least she has been found and the family can grieve and know what happened to her as far too many missing persons' families end up living with not knowing for years or forever. My heart goes out to her family, and also to the poor bride who will undoubtedly be devastated knowing that her friend died after they had an argument. I cannot begin to imagine how she feels. So sad.
     
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  7. astheworldfallsdown

    astheworldfallsdown Well-Known Member

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    That's a sad story, a row would probably have just blown over and been forgotten about the next day :(
     
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  8. Wlm17

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    I know, that’s the thing. But when the drinks in the wits out. I don’t know how drunk she was but if you’ve ever been on a hen, especially in Ireland it’s drink after drink after drink.
     
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  9. Rosiebones

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    This another sad story of "If only, I had........ (fill in the blank), on the part of her friends, especially the bride. And nothing can ever make it right.
    I still don't understand how she got down to the water's edge and then into it, if she wasn't extremely impaired. I refuse to believe she took her own life, that makes the least sense to me.
     
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  10. astheworldfallsdown

    astheworldfallsdown Well-Known Member

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    I'm Irish. I know. The rows always blew over and were forgotten about.
     
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  11. eucalyptuz

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    Curious that she seems to have 2 Facebook profiles, both current and recently updated. Does not seem to be one for career, one for family and friends, like some people do.
     
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  12. MimosaMornings

    MimosaMornings Well- Known Member

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    Thanks @JanetElaine
    I am struggling with WiFi on the flight.
     
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  13. eucalyptuz

    eucalyptuz Well-Known Member

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    The only vacation/short stay rental I can find that would be big enough capacity to hold the group and within 5 minutes walk is not on the water, but only a short hop away.

    I wonder if she went for a walk on the pier for the view or a little bit of calm.
     
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  14. crhedBngr

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    So sad.

    RIP, Ruth.
     
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  15. astheworldfallsdown

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    Maybe just to cool off, not having seriously intended packing up to go back to Newcastle. Just something said in the heat of the moment.
     
  16. MimosaMornings

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    Yes, that is what I meant. Wasn’t casting doubt on the bouncer at all. IMO the articles I had read seemed to indicate no one had any clue why she would suddenly leave. I did find it odd that the hen party didn’t mention there was a “tiff” - even if a minor disagreement that drinking might have brought on. So very sad for her family :(
     
  17. Gardenista

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    sillybilly WS Administrator Staff Member Administrator Moderator

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    Many posts have had to be removed.

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  20. JanetElaine

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    Ugh... so that was the Instagram post. I'm starting to wonder now if it might have been self harm after all. She could have meant it as a clue, or captioned it in a certain manner... :( Poor lady. I hope she'll rest in peace. Condolences to her husband, kids, family and friends. Especially the ones who were at the party, they must be going through hell right now.
     
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