Do these descriptions of JonBenet's behaviour made by people outside of the family sound as though JonBenet was being sexually abused by her father? Barbara Kostanick the mother of one of JonBenet's friends is quoted in PMPT as saying: "JonBenet seemed resentful that her father traveled so much. Not really angry, just sad. She really liked him a lot." Also in PMPT there is an account by Brian Scott the gardener of a conversation he had with JonBenet when he was in the garden raking up the leaves while JonBenet was with him: Last year my Dad and I did that. And then she said quietly; I really miss him. I wish he was around more. Where does he go? I don't know. But sometimes he goes away for a long time. You really miss him? Yeah, I really miss him a lot. Then she started to cry, tears rolling down her cheeks. IMO if John had been sexually molesting JonBenet the times he was away would have been the only times she felt safe and she would be wishing he would stay a lot more.