- May 31, 2005
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I'm not sure that the modesty that is important in the family has anything to do with sleeping. Not sure what they have to do with each other.
I also don't see any evidence that their daughters were shamed. Have they said that they felt that way? I can totally understand why they would be uncomfortable with the molestation being made public. I would feel victimized as well with it made public, and I certainly wouldn't feel as if I were "shamed". The victimizing has nothing to do with shaming.
You may find something illuminating by Googling:
There Is No Victim: A Survey of IBLP Literature on Sexual Assault and Abuse
25 April 2014
An April 30th 2021 post on an FB page called Thriving Forward. A post titled “Why has Anna Duggar Stayed With Josh”.
Those are two easy reads regarding this issue.