I'm just so sick of these babies being hurt and killed. I think it would be a good idea for every single parent that has a child to come and have a read on websleuths. Its not like its a rare occurrence that you see these babies hurt by partners. I know there is no crystal ball telling you if you are going to get a good partner but there are ways to find things out. Its just too easy now for these bad people to get access to the most vulnerable. Being responsible and not just trusting anybody with these babies lives should surely be one of your main concerns.