davehead21
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I am just now catching up on this thread. I'm so very sorry for your family's loss-- I will keep you all in my prayers.
Thank you all for the thoughts and prayers concerning Grandma.
Most of her grandkids who live close by and her daughter-in-law were with her Saturday evening when she passed away. She had been asking all of us to pray for her, so someone suggested we pray the rosary for her. We were about half way through it when she passed.
Thank you for the continued prayers and condolences for our Grandma. She was a tough lady and she will be dearly missed. If you read between the lines in Gene's post, you'll see that her OWN SON, EK, was not there when she passed away. He hadn't stopped by the entire day, nor did he even call to check on her. Rumor is he was at an auction and buying his new "girlfriend" a ring. I swear, I keep asking myself when I will stop being surprised at his lack of conscience. I CANNOT believe he wasn't there with her.
And, true to form, he chose to be a jerk during the time we were taking care of her. I think he completely burned all family bridges when he demanded the day after she passed away, that any items she gave away to any of her grandkids in the past years be returned to him. There was no funeral for her, just a graveside service, and he didn't join the family for that - just stood by his gf's truck from a distance.
Our court hearing on Monday resulted in EK's lawyer withdrawing their request for past maintenance payments to be returned since there was no evidence to prove that she is deceased, and they had thought there was. Isn't that a big fat lie? We all knew at the time that was filed, there was no dna evidence proving the remains were Mom's. And how the heck would you prove a date of death, unless you had KNOWLEDGE in some way, shape or form????? Keep pushing EK...we'll never give up.
No word yet on the hearing today but will post as soon as I hear something.
Thank you for the continued prayers and condolences for our Grandma. She was a tough lady and she will be dearly missed. If you read between the lines in Gene's post, you'll see that her OWN SON, EK, was not there when she passed away. He hadn't stopped by the entire day, nor did he even call to check on her. Rumor is he was at an auction and buying his new "girlfriend" a ring. I swear, I keep asking myself when I will stop being surprised at his lack of conscience. I CANNOT believe he wasn't there with her.
And, true to form, he chose to be a jerk during the time we were taking care of her. I think he completely burned all family bridges when he demanded the day after she passed away, that any items she gave away to any of her grandkids in the past years be returned to him. There was no funeral for her, just a graveside service, and he didn't join the family for that - just stood by his gf's truck from a distance.
Our court hearing on Monday resulted in EK's lawyer withdrawing their request for past maintenance payments to be returned since there was no evidence to prove that she is deceased, and they had thought there was. Isn't that a big fat lie? We all knew at the time that was filed, there was no dna evidence proving the remains were Mom's. And how the heck would you prove a date of death, unless you had KNOWLEDGE in some way, shape or form????? Keep pushing EK...we'll never give up.
No word yet on the hearing today but will post as soon as I hear something.
Amen!!!bump up... And Rita, hope you enjoyed your picnic![]()
Oh my that breaks my heart what EK did to the grandkids... there are words but if I said them here I would be banned for life!
Are investigators stil keeping you updated on her case? If they have enough evidence to say it was a "murder for hire" I sure hope they are onto the person who did the hiring!!!!!!
My prayers are with you girl!
Hi Nurse! The kids & I are off to a picnic now, I will check in later!