Barney,
I have to say that what bugs me the most is JY telling this stuff to his friends during Michelle's funeral. That just blows me away and truly, truly, makes me think this guy was in heavy CYA mode, even during his wife's funeral. That is just sick to me.
Don't get me wrong, I have no doubt it happened, but doesn't that strike you as a very strange thing for people to even ask, let alone a spouse to be worrying about at a funeral ? To me this just absolutely screams consciousness of guilt. I can see these conversations before or after but definitely not during and I certainly can't figure why he couldn't be bothered to tell LE this "innocent" information. The guy is a loon IMO.