Howdy,
You say "many successful men..." have killed their wives. Sure, it can happen and does happen. But before I am surprised at it, I would have to have seen how they were reared. "As the twig is set, so the tree will grow." I know how Jason was reared.
YOU SAID: "Adultery, financial problems, marital problems, pregnancy, secret lives, refusal to assist police, lawyering up are just some of the common traits that the other murdering spouses possessed. Can you see Jason fitting into any of these categories??" END SNIP
Adultery: not proven.
Financial: Not true. I know the search warrant. Still not true.
Marital: Not proven. Rumors.
Pregnancy: A positive development. Both were happy about it.
Secret: I don't understand.
Assist police: You mean the police who from the beginning have been hostile?
You mean the police who from the beginning have accused him of beating his wife and baby boy to death?
You mean the police who have released nothing but incomplete, negative information?
You mean the police who from the beginning have shown their hostility by harassing his family?
You mean the police who from the beginning have accused him of not cooperating when what they really mean is that he will not submit to grilling by them?
Are these the police officers you mean?
--Jake