MO MO - Echo Michelle Lloyd, 47, no bank & cellphone activity, Edwards, Benton Co, 10 May 2020

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  1. allyoucantleavebehind

    allyoucantleavebehind Well-Known Member

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    Everything @gsleuth said is spot ON. But I do think he was making the mess--it seemed limited to when she came in AFTER her mom disappeared--and less like it was something Echo was doing?

    This rape survivor was trapped in a dance with fear and being retraumatized by this neighbor. All the unresolved trauma comes back and changes how well you can handle aggressive, needy men. For many rape survivors, aggressive, needy men are actually paralyzing. It's hard to think when a man's needs are constant, preeminent, verbalized, and disorienting.
     
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    allyoucantleavebehind Well-Known Member

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  3. Lyanna

    Lyanna Well-Known Member

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    Thinking of Echo and her family.
    Hoping she is found soon.

    Xx
     
  4. Betty P

    Betty P Well-Known Member

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    You did a great job putting that into words. She was very fearful. Someone was taking her money, her car, her phone, controlling her life and separating her from her family and friends. She was almost like a hostage.
     
  5. Betty P

    Betty P Well-Known Member

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    No, it's living out in an isolated area with a violent neighbor who probably has a weapon and goes into your house whether or not you want him to. She was able to finally kick the guy out of her house, car, etc. as she told her daughter. But something bad happened after that. No one knows, the witnesses aren't talking and the victim of abuse is missing.

    ETA: Don't forget, her own gun was found outside of her house. This was some time after she had forced him out of her home and took back control of her belongings.

    I assume this means he came to her house. She went outside with the gun to make him leave. No one knows what happened after that.
     
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  6. MimosaMornings

    MimosaMornings Well- Known Member

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    Who else in Echo’s family had been to her house besides KS?
     
  7. Betty P

    Betty P Well-Known Member

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    From what I recall KS mentioning in interviews, all of her kids were there at one time or another. IIRC one or two of them (possibly her son) had lived with her for a while. They were eventually old enough to move out on their own.

    My impression is the other siblings are younger than KS, ICBW.
     
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  8. MimosaMornings

    MimosaMornings Well- Known Member

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    I think Echo has only lived there about a year or so?

    How did Echo support herself?
     
  9. Lorenathered

    Lorenathered Well-Known Member

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    Um, that is a whole lot of assumptions about smokers. I have smoked since I was 15(terrible habit I know). I haven't bought cigs in a carton for a good 10 years - and I was renting all that time. I am a home owner and haven't bought them in a carton for at least that long. I do not have a pack for every room - that is a serious addiction of someone does that. I don't even know alcoholics who keep alcohol in every room. Yes I have several lighters but I have a main one that I always keep with my current pack. Going off my habits and the habits of all my friends who smoked, it is still significant that the pack and lighter were not taken.
     
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    HelenM Well-Known Member

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    Has it been stated anywhere whether the neighbor has been invited by LE to take a polygraph?

    I understand the result may not be admissible as evidence but surely the willingness and passing of a polygraph is way different to refusing to undertake one.

    Continuing to wish for answers for Echo's loved ones, Echo seems like such a lovely lady.
     
  11. BlkMtnGirl

    BlkMtnGirl Well-Known Member

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    And a search of the pond. I don’t think they ever did that. Which makes me mad.
     
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  12. Lyanna

    Lyanna Well-Known Member

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    Bumping for Echo.. <3
     
  13. chaz

    chaz Well-Known Member

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    Echo's poster has been updated, she was last seen on 6-14-2020.
    Active Missing Persons
    Did someone come forward with this information or was it a camera that captured her? Where was she seen on the 14th? Why coming with this info more than a year later? Slow investigation?
     
  14. Lyanna

    Lyanna Well-Known Member

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    That's odd! Hopefully it was a camera that captured her.

    Ebmta - it's a private road, can't street view on Google to see if there visible cameras on property etc.
     
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  15. YaYa_521

    YaYa_521 Forum Coordinator Staff Member Forum Coordinators

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    Did you mean to type 5-14-2020 which is what is shown on the flyer you linked. If so, you still have time to edit your comment.
     
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    Yes, it was a typo. I only see it now and it's too late to edit, sorry.:oops:
     
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  17. Betty P

    Betty P Well-Known Member

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    The address is her own home, her trailer. Apparently, someone has claimed they saw her there 5 days later. I wonder who claims they saw her there?

    LE should really provide the public with some detailed information about this later sighting of Echo at her home. Any information about the last time she was seen is very important. The public needs to know.
     
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  18. kelsie

    kelsie Missing Persons Advocate, Writer, and Researcher

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    More will be released on this soon.
     
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    Betty P Well-Known Member

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    Thanks. We'll be watching. I hope someone can find Echo soon.
     
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    I find it strange that the update on the state police poster is not on the sheriff's facebook or on the bring Echo home facebook. Now I wonder who provided this "information". @kelsie, I sure hope you are right and things are moving towards some answers for her familie.
     
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