BillyGoatGruff
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While I'll no doubt get blasted for this by the Pollyannas in the group, I need to state something here. While there are those who work in the sex industry who are sober, responsible & level-headed small businesswomen (and men), they are in the minority. I would say 5%, and most of those are in the "management" positions.
There are two types of people those who run escort agencies don't trust: their clients & the people who work for them. The johns part no doubt makes sense--a lot of these guys are trying to rip off the company & the girls, and many prove to be dangerous, while some are cops. I was surprised at how little the companies trusted the girls working for them--but I soon learned why.
Being a mother and student isn't rare in the escort business. In fact, I would say 90% have kids, and at least 50% were trying to finish college. And I would say 80% have serious alcohol & drug problems, mostly cocaine, crack & meth. Many of the girls would steal money from clients, or take their fees and instead of drop it off with the agency, run to the first crack house they could find. Others would supposedly talk to a client they had been set up with, then call back to the agency to tell us the cleint had changed his mind, then go do the call--which was known as "stealing a fee". Others would show up to a call wasted and/or become violent/crazy with a client. We had lists of girls who were either blacklisted or "on probation" because they had stolen fees, rolled clients or showed up to calls messed up. Sometimes they could not come back to work for the agency until they had undergone detox.
After a couple of months I learned which girls were reliable & trustworthy and which ones were ticking timebombs. And occasionally I would find myself screwed over by a girl I had previously thought to be reliable. But, as the owner of the business (and a former escort herself) once reminded me: "Trust none of them, because, when you get down to the reality of it, everyone you're dealing with is a criminal." She finally stopped using retired escorts in the office after we came to work one day to find the compuers stolen, the safe pried up out of the floor, and the credit card machine stolen. From then on in she only hired people who had backgrounds in running small business offices.
None of this may be politically correct, but it is the cold, hard reality of the business--and the reason I don't trust a thing about this case.
There are two types of people those who run escort agencies don't trust: their clients & the people who work for them. The johns part no doubt makes sense--a lot of these guys are trying to rip off the company & the girls, and many prove to be dangerous, while some are cops. I was surprised at how little the companies trusted the girls working for them--but I soon learned why.
Being a mother and student isn't rare in the escort business. In fact, I would say 90% have kids, and at least 50% were trying to finish college. And I would say 80% have serious alcohol & drug problems, mostly cocaine, crack & meth. Many of the girls would steal money from clients, or take their fees and instead of drop it off with the agency, run to the first crack house they could find. Others would supposedly talk to a client they had been set up with, then call back to the agency to tell us the cleint had changed his mind, then go do the call--which was known as "stealing a fee". Others would show up to a call wasted and/or become violent/crazy with a client. We had lists of girls who were either blacklisted or "on probation" because they had stolen fees, rolled clients or showed up to calls messed up. Sometimes they could not come back to work for the agency until they had undergone detox.
After a couple of months I learned which girls were reliable & trustworthy and which ones were ticking timebombs. And occasionally I would find myself screwed over by a girl I had previously thought to be reliable. But, as the owner of the business (and a former escort herself) once reminded me: "Trust none of them, because, when you get down to the reality of it, everyone you're dealing with is a criminal." She finally stopped using retired escorts in the office after we came to work one day to find the compuers stolen, the safe pried up out of the floor, and the credit card machine stolen. From then on in she only hired people who had backgrounds in running small business offices.
None of this may be politically correct, but it is the cold, hard reality of the business--and the reason I don't trust a thing about this case.