Alleykins
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No, I'm in the US, I just always referred my own mother as mum or mumsey.
Also, I'm referring to folks who weren't married when they had children. It was a different set of rules for custody between unmarried people and married people. Perhaps I shouldn't assume TPR and the MC's mother weren't married, they might have been, we just don't know it yet. But if they weren't married, custody was fair game, according to what my mum went through to get us back. No one would or could help her because she wasn't married to my father. If this applied to TPR and the MC's mother, technically, the MC wasn't missing, she was with her father, and there was little her mother could about it but take her back. That would have been difficult back then, because he moved across the country and changed his name.
TPR does have an established pattern, but patterns usually have a starting point and then evolve over time. He didn't come right out of the gate as a killer, or he would have started with his family, a possibility that his daughter was well too aware of in the 20/20 video, when she stated it could have been her. He hadn't gotten to that stage yet.
Again, I'm not saying he didn't kill the MC's mother or that she isn't a missing person or a Jane Doe. I'm only keeping an open mind about other possibilities, including the possibility she willingly handed over the MC to TPR and went on with her life. It has, and still does, happen.
Also, I'm referring to folks who weren't married when they had children. It was a different set of rules for custody between unmarried people and married people. Perhaps I shouldn't assume TPR and the MC's mother weren't married, they might have been, we just don't know it yet. But if they weren't married, custody was fair game, according to what my mum went through to get us back. No one would or could help her because she wasn't married to my father. If this applied to TPR and the MC's mother, technically, the MC wasn't missing, she was with her father, and there was little her mother could about it but take her back. That would have been difficult back then, because he moved across the country and changed his name.
TPR does have an established pattern, but patterns usually have a starting point and then evolve over time. He didn't come right out of the gate as a killer, or he would have started with his family, a possibility that his daughter was well too aware of in the 20/20 video, when she stated it could have been her. He hadn't gotten to that stage yet.
Again, I'm not saying he didn't kill the MC's mother or that she isn't a missing person or a Jane Doe. I'm only keeping an open mind about other possibilities, including the possibility she willingly handed over the MC to TPR and went on with her life. It has, and still does, happen.