NJ- School Superintendent blames girl’s family for her suicide after she was beaten by a group of girls in the hallway of her school.

[stmarysmead]

In this case, one of the Mothers posted proudly in FB that her daughter was a ‘gangsta’ like her. The daughter proudly replied in the affirmative.

Every kid seems to have a cellphone these days…it is not confined to the affluent anymore.

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[BeginnerSleuther]

Respectfully agree to disagree at this point, as we don't know what reports are true or not imo. Jmo parents skip regularly on terrible actions of their children. They need to own it, and face consequences. Pointing fingers at schools is imo, often, a very lame, and unfair excuse, and is mostly shockingly accepted. . Jme. Not sure why. Homeowners are held responsible for all kinds of things, parents or legak guardians of children should be included with everything else, . Imo

I believe the superintendent report is legit given that it's a quote. But I also don't think anyone is saying the parents aren't partly to blame for raising such kids; just that the school doesn't get off because parents raised the kids they did. For the superintendent to blame the victim and her family for her suicide is despicable. MOO.

 

[DFWNF]

I believe the superintendent report is legit given that it's a quote. But I also don't think anyone is saying the parents aren't partly to blame for raising such kids; just that the school doesn't get off because parents raised the kids they did. For the superintendent to blame the victim and her family for her suicide is despicable. MOO.

Bbm I agree with that completely.

 

[DFWNF]

Can appreciate where this theory is coming from, but to be clear demographically, this is a school district that struggles - among the hundred or so poorest in New Jersey - and statistically it’s more probable that these bullies are from trailer parks and cottage apartments along Route 35.
If anyone watched Jersey Shore years ago on MTV - the stars of that show were not from Central Regional, but the show took place in Seaside Heights, which is part of this district. Think roach motels, hair gel, just not great.

Good post. I have never seen Jersey Shore. I probably misinterpreted a post or more where it seemed like less affluent students were seeming to be pointed at for bullying, and I posted too hastily. Take care.

 

[HMSHood]

In this case, one of the Mothers posted proudly in FB that her daughter was a ‘gangsta’ like her. The daughter proudly replied in the affirmative.

Every kid seems to have a cellphone these days…it is not confined to the affluent anymore.

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I have seen the names of the bullies who attacked Adriana Kuch. I am not surprised they come from broken families.

I wonder what the motive is. I would not be surprised if it is jealousy and envy as I have seen with other bullying cases in which the victim committed suicide (eg. Megan Meier, Phoebe Prince, and Brandy Vela).

 

[HMSHood]

I wonder if there is a motive why Adriana Kuch was attacked. I know in past bullying cases that resulted in victim committing suicide, the bully is consumed by intense jealousy and envy. They are likely injustice collectors.

 

[Tired Professor]

I wonder if there is a motive why Adriana Kuch was attacked. I know in past bullying cases that resulted in victim committing suicide, the bully is consumed by intense jealousy and envy. They are likely injustice collectors.

“Kuch’s father, Michael, said that the attack was initiated by one of the four girls who was jealous of her being friends with another girl.”
Source: Names of Adriana Kuch's bullies released online as Internet calls for action against their parents

 

[HMSHood]

“Kuch’s father, Michael, said that the attack was initiated by one of the four girls who was jealous of her being friends with another girl.”
Source: Names of Adriana Kuch's bullies released online as Internet calls for action against their parents

Not surprised. Jealousy and envy can drive one to extreme evil. Seen that many times with Columbine, Sandy Hook, Isla Vista, Virginia Tech, Parkland, Uvalde, Sutherland Springs, Orlando, Las Vegas, and 9/11.

Murderous Envy

What is the role of envy in school shootings?

www.psychologytoday.com

 

[acutename]

Can appreciate where this theory is coming from, but to be clear demographically, this is a school district that struggles - among the hundred or so poorest in New Jersey - and statistically it’s more probable that these bullies are from trailer parks and cottage apartments along Route 35.
If anyone watched Jersey Shore years ago on MTV - the stars of that show were not from Central Regional, but the show took place in Seaside Heights, which is part of this district. Think roach motels, hair gel, just not great.

careful relying on TV shows for anything

Only two Jersey natives in the 'Jersey Shore' cast​

Tampa Bay Times
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Oct 22, 2011 — Vinny Guadagnino, Ronnie Magro and Nicole "Snooki" Polizzi are from New York. Rhode Island-native Paul DelVecchio is the only cast member from ...

 

[ChatteringBirds]

Think roach motels, hair gel, just not great.

RSBM. What does needing to live in a motel (social class) or hair products have to do with how teens treat other teens?

 

[caradana]

RSBM. What does needing to live in a motel (social class) or hair products have to do with how teens treat other teens?

American Psychological Association:

• Children from lower SES households are about twice as likely as those from high-SES households to display learning-related behavior problems. A mother’s SES is also related to her child’s inattention, disinterest, and lack of cooperation in school (Morgan et al., 2009).

Education and Socioeconomic Status Factsheet

The impact of socioeconomic status on educational outcomes and reducing slow academic skills development, low literacy, chronic stress and increased dropout rates.

www.apa.org