NY NY - Robert Mayer, 46, Dix Hills, 14 Jun 2013 - # 4

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I believe the only thing confirmed by LE is that RM did not come home and that was via IM...and i dont ever recall a public statement by LE. PLease correct me if im wrong.

I have learned a valuable lesson from this case (sincerely): be very careful about what you *know* is fact (and can be substantiated), versus what people (other than LE) say/hear/think. Sometimes, if you hear something repeated enough, it becomes a "fact" in your head. :facepalm:
 

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Don't you all think the cameras had to be working? That is the only reason LE was not all over that scrap yard with a fine tooth comb. They saw him leave!
 

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I have learned a valuable lesson from this case (sincerely): be very careful about what you *know* is fact (and can be substantiated), versus what people (other than LE) say/hear/think. Sometimes, if you hear something repeated enough, it becomes a "fact" in your head. :facepalm:

So true.
and so strange
 

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Don't you all think the cameras had to be working? That is the only reason LE was not all over that scrap yard with a fine tooth comb. They saw him leave!

For whatever reason, I had it in my mind that the story about the cameras, was a fact. Although it seemed odd (even suspicious) that that was the case, I believed it. I now feel that the only things I can believe are things that can be proven (if necessary), like the cell phone records, or something that LE saw with their own eyes (where the car was parked). I just don't understand how someone (family/friends of RM) can say things publicly, that are unproven. If it turns out that the scrap yard had nothing to do with RM's disappearance (which I never believed they did), they deserve an apology. They have been vilified on "that other page".
 

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That is but a small area of the entire town, IMO, and not all of it is bad, mainly just the area around depot road.

I drive from one end of Huntington to the other, daily, and not one light has red light cameras. So I think it would be fairly easy for, say, me, to not get caught on camera an entire day of my life even if I were mobile.

The traffic light cameras i was speaking of were not in the town...though on Jericho tpke most lights have cameras...
 

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That is but a small area of the entire town, IMO, and not all of it is bad, mainly just the area around depot road.

I drive from one end of Huntington to the other, daily, and not one light has red light cameras. So I think it would be fairly easy for, say, me, to not get caught on camera an entire day of my life even if I were mobile.

I agree. I'm not trying to paint all of the town of Huntington with the same brush used for that little spot. The vast majority of Huntingon is quite nice/beautiful.
 

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I think that dropped call that morning is when IM lost RM. Jmo
 

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Don't you all think the cameras had to be working? That is the only reason LE was not all over that scrap yard with a fine tooth comb. They saw him leave!

And, LE probably is aware of the neighbor's video. The scrap yard has been eliminated IMO.
 

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And if you found him. What would you do? Just askin'

I've been traveling all over the island this summer. I have observed hundreds of 40 something males, if I spotted him, what would I do? I don't know is my honest answer, though I'd let the WS community in on my findings, for sure. Would I turn him over to IM or LE, not certain. And you?:twocents::drumroll:
 

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But that happened while he was at work. There are 2 "reported" sightings afterward.

Yes I think that was when Robert hung up on her. I think they were having a fight.

Lol I don't mean he vanished then but that was when he decided he wasn't going home.
 

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I've been traveling all over the island this summer. I have observed hundreds of 40 something males, if I spotted him, what would I do? I don't know is my honest answer, though I'd let the WS community in on my findings, for sure. Would I turn him over to IM or LE, not certain. And you?:twocents::drumroll:

I'm not so sure I would either!
 

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I agree. I'm not trying to paint all of the town of Huntington with the same brush used for that little spot. The vast majority of Huntingon is quite nice/beautiful.

Hey, I grew up in Huntington Bay! Little beats it! Still visit Main st., the Book Review and Fleets Neck!
 

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If this man is out there I'd love to hear his side of this story!
 

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I've been traveling all over the island this summer. I have observed hundreds of 40 something males, if I spotted him, what would I do? I don't know is my honest answer, though I'd let the WS community in on my findings, for sure. Would I turn him over to IM or LE, not certain. And you?:twocents::drumroll:

Turn him in. At that point he would be a deadbeat dad. The kids deserve better. I would hope he'd be made to support them.
 

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Turn him in. At that point he would be a deadbeat dad. The kids deserve better. I would hope he'd be made to support them.

Well then, in letting you know, you'd set me straight. Good for you/us/them!
 

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Turn him in. At that point he would be a deadbeat dad. The kids deserve better. I would hope he'd be made to support them.

I would first like to hear his side of the story. Something is going on here that we are not hearing about imo
 

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A man does not just vanish if his home life is wonderful. So either something criminal happened or his home life was cracked. All we have is one version.
 
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