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Yes indeed. I have a friend who went to the Dr thinking she had appendicitis and left with a very unexpected baby girl. But yeah she went to the Dr! I can't imagine feeling the pain of childbirth and not knowing that's what it was and NOT seeking help? I mean, supposedly the one time I've given birth, I had an "easy labor and delivery" because it was so quick I didn't get an epidural but holy biscuits Batman that hurt!Its not sitting right with me. I know everyone reacts differently to things. It must have been very scary to go into labor when you didnt even know you were pregnant. I am surprised they didnt call 911, or rush the mom to the hospital. Or seek medical care afterwards.
Unfortunately I had to bury my sweet baby much too soon, and I can't imagine not wanting to properly bury the baby... The way my mind goes, if there's enough to want to bury, then give a proper funeral and internment.
Not to get too graphic, but I've had a miscarriage, too, and it was early in the pregnancy, and I certainly don't want to give the idea I consider this the right way or anything like that but I personally didn't see or feel anything I would consider an actual fetus, so burial wasn't a concern, but if I'd felt differently, I still wouldn't be able to just do it in my backyard.
I used to teach preschool, so I've literally officiated funerals for a bee, a vandalized garden, at least 2 birds, etc.
So I'm gonna have to agree there is more to it than what we know so far. Something wasn't surely being hidden here... Good thoughts on drugs in mom's system perhaps... That seems rather possible.
Whew that was rather verbose!