No--I think Casey killed her in a premeditated manner. After listening to her coldly lying to LE in those interviews, it's apparent that she never cared for her daughter.
I think Casey was focused only on herself and the lifestyle she wanted. She saw Caylee as a threat to that, and she was feeling pressure to resolve that. She was getting pressure from Cindy to take better care of her child, and she probably felt Tony slipping away as well. Her solution was to get rid of Caylee. Once she did that, she felt totally free & that's apparent in the pics from Fusian. I think she's a monster who is only concerned with herself.
:newbie: This is my first post, but I've been reading for weeks.
I agree with this. I have two diagnosed sociopaths in my family (kind of scary to wonder whether its a nature thing or a nurture thing!)--and Casey's behavior, as well as that of her family, is so familiar that it terrifies me.
Not all sociopaths are exceptionally smart. They are cunning, and quite often believe themselves to be far more intelligent than they are, simply by virtue of their impeccable manipulation skills.
One of "my" sociopaths is of greater than average intelligence, though not a genius by any means. (He would beg to differ.) The other is average at best. Both can fool the most experienced interviewers, if they're not specifically looking for sociopathy. (The narcissistic aspect of sociopathy is evident to nearly everyone he spends more than ten minutes with, however.)
Neither has formed any meaningful relationships. One, however, has created the appearance of having done so; my father remained married to my mother until her death--more than 50 years. Why? It suited his purposes. She had money, he didn't have to work, he inherited. (He also contributed to her death, but that's a post for another day.)
The other forms intense relationships very quickly--but only maintains them as long as the other people involved meet his needs. He is a drug addict--and yet has talked his way out of legal situations that would curl your hair.
Both are ruthless when opposed. Both lie as a way of life. Both have additional psychopathologies in addition to their completely UNtreatable sociopathy. One is a convicted felon, and the other ...well, he actually is far more evil, but has eluded attention.
When you talk about the relationship between Casey's family's responses and actions and Casey's behavior, there's a natural tendency to want to find an explanation for the way Casey is. It's natural to think that if something had been done differently, she would have turned out differently. After all, it's clear as day that the family is dysfunctional as all get-out.
But I'd suggest that Casey is the way she is because---it's the way she is! Her family's way of interacting with her is more likely a result of her really depraved behavior over a long period of time than the converse. She made THEM what they are!
I know that in my family of origin--the house in which I lived with 2 sociopaths---there was first of all, a great deal of confusion. It is mind-boggling to live with a sociopath. The messages sent are confusing. For many years, most people try to apply normal standards to the sociopath---and that's where the excuse-making or looking for reasons comes in.
They are NOT normal people. Not by a long shot.
They are capable of depravity beyond most peoples' wildest imaginations. And they are generally untroubled by it, unless the consequences somehow impede their lives.
Sorry this turned into a novel---I just wanted to give my own insight into what is going on in that house. I might be off-base---but my observations make my skin crawl.
Yes, Casey drinks. Yes, she uses drugs. Yes, she has parents who do not issue consequences for her behavior (as an aside, it's not unlikely that they are scared of her). But it wasn't those things that allowed her to do what she did. That was permitted by her complete lack of conscience.
She IS a monster. And nothing will ever change that. She might, however, manage to convince a lot of people otherwise.