Since Tricia gave us the okay to respectfully speculate on this possibile aspect, I thought I would start a thread and ask some questions. What information indicates this? I know the ex-bf of DeDe said that he was her first boyfriend when she was 42. Does that mean she had no sexual partners also, or that she had no male sexual partners? If this is indeed true (that they are lovers), would that be enough incentive for DeDe to commit such a despicable crime?