Ollijack, thank you, the children are the first and foremost, if TM's kids are doing well and TM is getting support then I am genuinely glad that this is not affecting them to the point their lives are ruined and miserable, sadly for Allison, her 3 girls and the entire Dickie clan, they will never get that opportunity.. I do not not hate TM, I actually wrote a post a few days before he interview stating I thought the paid interview was teh smartest thing she had done through all this , I felt the whole ordeal would of affected her livelihood and this would filter down to her boys.. I have no ill feelings towards Bajas either , as I can see she has a very close connection with TM's boys through her own son, so it is understandable, but, Im making a point that it was the decisions of 2 adults that affected forever the lives of 5 children. I dont appreciate being referred to as a hater though, if someone had read all my posts, I have called a spade a spade, at time humour heals pain, and to be honest, anyone caught in situations like that, would get flak, how many celebrities get caught with their pants down and get humiliated, sadly, TM is experiencing her share seeing the man she was having " a loving and caring relationship with" murdered his wife so he could clean up hid finances and move on with TM.. It is what it is..