School ref's to criminal chg's re cafeteria sex act

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  1. al66pine

    al66pine New Member

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    http://www.wsbtv.com/news/news/local/video-sex-act-cafeteria-spreads-through-high-schoo/nbPj3/ Oct. 16, 2013

    CHEROKEE COUNTY, Ga. —
    Students in Cherokee County say a dare prompted two students to perform a sex act in a high school cafeteria.

    The students ... at Etowah High School said a student used a cellphone to record the incident, which happened during lunch with plenty of people around.

    Students told Viteri that a male and female freshman were involved in the incident.

    A school representative said the female student allegedly made a sexual offer to the male classmate during lunch.

    “The guy who recorded it, he sent it to people…a lot (of people),” one student said.
    BBM S...BM
     
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  3. al66pine

    al66pine New Member

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    From same link:
    "The male classmate later told administrators that he thought this offer was a joke,
    but when the female student began to act upon it, the male student said he stopped her." BBM

    What did he mean by when she began to act upon "it."
    1.
    If "it" was the joke (or dare or offer), the cellphone recording likely would have recorded only one of the following -
    - a female hand reaching for his trousers zipper, or
    - a nano-seconds later, his trousers unzipped, or
    - a few nano-seconds later, his whitey-tighties or boxers, etc.
    Not much 'worth' recording and circulating, as I understand current high school mentality.
    2.
    If "it" was a part of his anatomy normally masked from human view in public*,
    presumably the video would be more revealing and thus 'worth' sending to 'a lot' of people.

    * Resorting to Victorian phrasing. When I graduated from high school,
    George Eastman had not even been born, much less pioneered the photographic film process. LOL.
     
  4. popsicle

    popsicle faith hope love

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    When she started to act on her offer...oral is my guess.
     
  5. katydid23

    katydid23 Verified Juanette

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    If this girl really did follow through on her 'offer' in the gym at lunchtime then I hope she is getting some counseling and someone is investigating her home life. I am going to predict that she is a victim of childhood sexual abuse. jmo
     
  6. Gardenlady

    Gardenlady Active Member

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    I was thinking hand-j@b... Under the table, less conspicuous.

    :help:

    :innocent:

    :giggle:
     
  7. Gardenlady

    Gardenlady Active Member

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    I dunno, perhaps. I remember being a freshman and girls and guys that age doing stuff like what I mentioned in my above post in totally inappropriate places (darkened roller skating rink, movie theater :lol: ), usually under a coat placed on the lap. Doesn't necessarily mean abuse. Could just be hormone filled teens plus the sense of "daring" from doing it in an inappropriate place.

    If she were younger though, I'd be more likely to think abuse in her life somewhere.
     
  8. FrayedKnot

    FrayedKnot Former Member

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    My daughter started middle school this year. The parent of a child in her class who also has an eighth grader enlightened me to "rainbow parties". She is also a specialist in peds infectious diseases and told me that our area ranks #1 in the state for STDs in pre-adolescents. :thud:

    Children. These are CHILDREN! And these girls are just debasing themselves to be liked. How pathetic! And these are not "fringe" kids. These are high-performing students in a magnet school, most of which come from intact homes and are in gifted programs.

    It's everywhere and it's so, so, sick.
     
  9. matou

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    This story was on HLN earlier today and the sex act was oral sex. The girl was dared to do it and encouraged and she acted on it with school bags surrounding the two and a crowd gathered around them to shield them (and cell phone videotape them). Lots wrong with this. I remember scandals at my school in the day but nothing so public like this.
     
  10. legalmania

    legalmania Verified Paralegal

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    OMG if this was my daughter I would ship her off to a foreign boarding school faster than she could say oral sex. What she is doing is not alright. It seems the boy had some morals. This is just not excusable behavior for a young teen or even young adult.
     
  11. FrayedKnot

    FrayedKnot Former Member

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    Yes! And not only that, I KNOW I am older than dirt but jeebus! When did oral become the new heavy petting? I was long past virginity before I braved up enough to give or receive oral.....and now little girls are doing it to seem edgy and still be "virgins"?

    Time for these girls to be taught they have value OTHER than what they do while on their knees! We have a whole generation of porn stars on the rise. Makes me sick and afraid. :(.
     
  12. waitin'4thewrld2chg

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    In general, adults and teens need to figure out that just because they can tape and photograph certain stuff doesn't mean they should. Sadly, as we know, repercussions up to and including suicide can and do follow.

    Managing technological capability and valuing one's person and spirit sufficiently would put an end to mindless dares like this being thrown out there and then being acted upon, in my perfect world. At the very least, resisting the urge to record the event for posterity would keep it in the realm of high school legend and lore rather than making it something to view in class next period as the teacher writes something on the board.
     
  13. john's mom

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    Girls today view oral sex as they do kissing, or making out. It's not a big thing.

    That's how they see it, not me. Lol.
     
  14. al66pine

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    http://www.cnn.com/2013/10/16/us/georgia-school-cafeteria-sex-act/
    Two Georgia students face charges in alleged sex act at cafeteria updated 8:50 PM EDT, Wed October 16, 2013

    "Two teenage high school students in Georgia face misdemeanor public indecency charges after a sex act allegedly was performed during lunch in the school cafeteria, a school official told CNN....
    The incident was recorded on the cell phone of at least two students, according to Jacoby, who said there is no evidence to suggest the video was shared or viewed by other students." BBM S...BM

    Interesting, imo, because:
    1. School official, not LE official, made stmt. about criminal charges possibly stemming from incident. Why didn't LE make stmt?

    2. I wonder if school personnel reviewed phones for evidence of sharing or viewing, or if school is relying on LE's findings about incident? If a cellphone owner showed recording in person to 2 or 10 or 100 friends, what evidence would there be?

    Is not-shared-or-viewed stmt the school's pre-emptive strike re anticipated lawsuit (who knows on what grounds. Maybe school failed to protect our daughter from sex act in cafeteria during school hours?)

    Is one of the participants a male student favored as a beneficiary of the Wink-and-Nod club, e.g. a sports star?

    JMQuestions, based on the few articles I've read to date.
     
  15. txsvicki

    txsvicki Active Member

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    Good grief it's awful to think that girls might be doing this to just anyone because they can't get pregnant, or is that what boys are wanting? Many men know that their wives don't even enjoy doing that. This is a sign that schools need much more supervision. They can't date yet so they do it at school!
     
  16. KrazyKatLadi

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    My husband went to school with a girl who was well known for orally pleasing most of the boys in high school. We still see her occasionally and she jokes about it like it was the good old days. Makes me ill to hear her talk like that.

    I'm so terrified of my daughter hitting middle and high school. I didn't even kiss a boy until I was 17...then I married the fool :banghead:
     
  17. indicajane

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    I don't know the statistics on that, but I don't know how true that is.

    When I was of this age, 25 or more years ago, the act wouldn't have been seen as a huge deal, now 14 year old indicajane would have been appalled by the fact it was done in public, more because I would have been afraid of being teased later, or that someone would have critiqued my performance, not of the act itself.

    Movies such as risky business or fast times at ridgemont high, or sixteen candles have teenagers engaging in public sex acts,and they're thirty years old.

    I guess if anything we should be relieved that an incident like this DOES make news, does inspire horror and debate.
     
  18. eileenhawkeye

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    There's a huge difference between giving oral in private, or even in public where you don't expect anyone to see, and doing it in front of audience. The rest of the students wouldn't be watching and filming it if wasn't a big deal. No one would care if they were making out.

    I disagree that girls today view oral sex as the same as kissing. I am not saying that it's not common, but that it's not viewed on the same level as kissing. The way I look at is...Do girls think they are *so much cooler* because they have gone further than kissing, into having oral sex? I bet they do, and that tells you right there they don't see it the same way.
     
  19. burbqueen

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    Im sorry I read this article and thought that's it?? I have definately seen worse raised in Plano, TX!! How old were they again?

    Most young people I know don't see it as a big deal really.
     
  20. Linda7NJ

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    New flash!

    Teens are sexual beings... from an historical perspective and an evolutionary one they are old enough to want to engage in sexual behavior. It's what they're hard wired to do.

    They need to be taught to make better choices, value themselves more and what the consequences of their choices could be


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  21. Linda7NJ

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    I'm even older than you ... And there were no shortage of teens doing this, yes in public.


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