The "Affair"

Discussion in 'Nancy Cooper' started by curiositycat, Jul 19, 2008.

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  1. nursebeeme

    nursebeeme Registered User

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    also couple owns a bmw suv and a bmw sedan....will have to get a link for that one...but I just read it a bit ago as I was going thru thread one to move stuff over
     


  2. belimom

    belimom Speak the truth even if your voice shakes~M.Kuhn

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    Seems that Heather M (...Scott's wife...?) worked there at one time, too:

    http://www.iw.com/magazine.php?inc=061500/6.15cover1.html :

    I'm not implying that she's the one involved with BC - there's no way to really know. I would just hate to be any "Heather" at all right now in the ring of Cooper friends...
     
  3. TGIRecovered

    TGIRecovered Well-Known Member

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    Great find, belimom! Glad to have you here!

    Susan
     
  4. Aimee729

    Aimee729 New Member

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    http://www.reunion.com/people-search-directory/L3/32425

    benicek, heather Age:30 Cary, NC
    benicek, d. Age: 56 Cary, NC; Leesburg, FL
    _________________________________________

    http://www.lochmerehoa.org/newsletter/May2008.pdf

    Here are our new neighbors. These folks have recently moved to Lochmere.
    A warm welcome to all of you! Say 'hi' when you meet them.
    "D. Benicek"
    _________________________________________________

    http://www.classmates.com/directory/school/Cary High School?org=3997
    Heather Benicek 1992 - 1996

    Heather Benicek
    Heather
    University of North Carolina - Wilmington, WILMINGTON, NC, Class of 2000
    University of North Carolina - Wilmington, WILMINGTON, NC, Class of 2000
    Clearwater High School, CLEARWATER, FL,
    Cary High School, CARY, NC, Class of 1996
    __________________________________________________

    PRELIMINARY PROSPECTUS SUPPLEMENT TO PRELIMINARY PROSPECTUS DATED JULY 28, 2000

    eSYLVAN, INC.
    34 Market Place
    Baltimore, Maryland 21202

    David Rosenbaum & Debra Benicek
    XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
    Cary, NC 27513

    Dear David Rosenbaum & Debra Benicek:

    We are pleased to enclose a prospectus pertaining to the offering of our Class A common stock to certain holders of franchise license agreements with Sylvan Learning Systems, Inc. and holders of Sylvan area development agreements.
    ___________________________________________________________


    CITA Accredited Schools Located within the United States
    Last update: Jan 15 2008 12:01PM
    North Carolina
    Sylvan Learning Center - 1612, Fayetteville, Heather Benicek
    203 Owen Drive, 6007 Morganton Rd, Fayetteville, NC, 28314, 910-323 1592, http://www.educate.com
    ____________________________________________________________

    I am thinking mother and daughter beacuse of the ages. Not saying anything else about them, because IDK. :waitasec:
     
  5. SeriouslySearching

    SeriouslySearching Well-Known Member

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    And he works at Cisco, too, huh?! Interesting.
     
  6. belimom

    belimom Speak the truth even if your voice shakes~M.Kuhn

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    And more - looks like she ran in a race with Nancy:

     
  7. belimom

    belimom Speak the truth even if your voice shakes~M.Kuhn

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    Thanks - you guys have me hooked now! I'm supposed to be cleaning our house... oops.
     
  8. Raebie

    Raebie New Member

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    xxxxx
     
  9. curiositycat

    curiositycat The one thing that doesn't abide by majority rule

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    I probably shouldn't say this, but as those of you who know me know...I never let that stop me....This neighborhood kind of reminds me of "Wisteria Lane"...Good looking, young professionals,women who take other women's husbands, ect. :bananapartyhat::bananapartyhat::bananapartyhat:
     
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    They did more than run in the same race. They ran together and placed 308 & 309. But then that was 4 years ago. Wonder if they still ran together.
     
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    Belimom--good sleuthing! They had the exact same time which means they probably ran together the whole time--leisurely pace, so possibly chatting.
     
  12. OtisCampbell

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    I'm guessing if you people come up with enough woman named Heather who live in that area someone will be right if he did indeed have an affair with such a woman.

    It's unfortunate all the other woman named Heather have to be dragged into this.

    Seriously, what's the point of all this? So someone can say that they guessed the right one? What if someones child is curious about this story and comes here and sees their mother being speculated about as a possible adulterer?
     
  13. Fuquaylj

    Fuquaylj New Member

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    I have to agree...these are people just like you and me. Can you imagine someone looking up and posting details about you because of your name? I'm as interested as the next person, but there has to be a line.
     
  14. belimom

    belimom Speak the truth even if your voice shakes~M.Kuhn

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    I agree about getting too curious regarding all the possible "Heathers". I rewrote my posts a couple of times and almost didn't post them b/c I felt like, "Wow - these are real people and even if having an affair they are probably in no way connected to her death"...

    It's way too easy to get wrapped up in "who could it be?" - thanks for the reminder that these are real people with real lives out there.

    It also goes to show that what CyberPro said on another thread is so true. If someone wanted to stalk you, they can do enough web searches to piece together a bit here and another bit there to know alot about you or your children or family.
     
  15. nanandjim

    nanandjim Former Member

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    Hmmm...Is the wife's name Heather?
     
  16. SeriouslySearching

    SeriouslySearching Well-Known Member

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    I agree we do need to keep things in perspective here. In all of our efforts to uncover the real story, we might get carried away. We should realize that what he says is true...suppose their children decide to google Mom's name and this pops up. Point taken.

    I believe the people who go on live television or are willing to put themselves into the media spotlight give up some right for closer investigation in such a case...we should try to keep the others on a more private level. I think we can discuss it, but personally I wouldn't post any private information here. It is entirely up to the mods how this is handled, but this is my opinion.
     
  17. curiositycat

    curiositycat The one thing that doesn't abide by majority rule

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    I have mixed feelings about it. On one hand I think we should be cautious in using names and on the other hand I think the woman needs to be exposed. I believe in time she will be. For now perhaps we need to wait. It is just a matter of time before some reporter gets the information. It's hard to not wonder about this after Nancy's parents made a point of mentioning it in the paperwork for custody of the children.

    This woman, whoever she is, is knee deep in this...IMHO
     
  18. nursebeeme

    nursebeeme Registered User

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    cateH had this to say:

    "No if about it - NC definitely requires a 1 year separation. Now that's not to say that some people don't fudge the numbers...but the law is one year, in separate residences.
     
  19. Magister

    Magister New Member

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    Heather is one of this country's most popular names and the idea that she's the other woman isn't really coming from a reliable source.
     
  20. Magister

    Magister New Member

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    Heck, I don't know if adultery is still a crime in NC, but I'm sure it's never enforced and though I no longer live in Cary, there's at least a dozen polygamous groupings living within a mile of my house, plus I've heard about meetups in some of the larger cities. Based entirely on circumstantial evidence, Nancy and Brad could've had a marriage of convenience during the latter part of her life, so that she could remain in the country and for all we know, they could've had an open marriage.

    Just because Brad may or may not have been having a sexual relationship outside of the marriage does not necessarily have any bearing on the case, whatsoever. After all, if it was such an open secret and if her parents knew, who lived thousands of miles away in another country, then why wouldn't we think that Nancy wasn't also aware and how do we know that she didn't accept it?
     
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